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Just broke up with my girl, liked her for months and she liked me for ages apparently. What is the best way to get her off my mind? Feel like rubbish, empty. Its killing me.
Best way to get someone of your mind?
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If you have a car, go for a very long drive. Drive it hard, really hard. If you don't have a car, then what Danny said.
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Made me smile a tad bit haha :-)
Sorry for the double post, but i`m 14 man. 10th year at school, teen life sucks because you get feelings like these and it all builds up inside and everything. Wish i could drive, might just go on GT6 for a bit.
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What to do... In my experience, girls seem to go out and have fun and we men suck it up and hide in our man cave
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If you're 14, then you'll be fine in a few weeks. it sounds harsh, but at 14 you get over these things quickly. Go for a long drive on GT6, hang out with your best mates, and generally do what you love. In a few weeks, she won't be at the front of your mind. And in a couple of months, you won't really care for her.
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In a couple of months, i`ll be all happy on my new Xbox i get for Christmas. Think i`ll go on GT6 for a long drive tomorrow if i can get my homework done in time. Its just the after-thought of it all man, like she said she loved me more and she liked me first but was the one to end it. What's the point man?
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Such is life. At 14, a lot of things don't make sense. I'm 19 and women still don't make sense
. Don't worry about the past, just think about the future.
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From a psychological standpoint, it's actually pretty hard to forget something or someone. Best thing to do is think of other stuff.
You're only 14. You'll look back at this in the future and wonder why you worried at all.
You're only 14. You'll look back at this in the future and wonder why you worried at all.
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This. This x1,000,000.
No matter what you do, even you get over her, you'll probably reflect on what could have been. I do it all the time, and most of the time I start thinking about something I did, it has nothing to do with a girl. In life, you always find yourself looking back at the past. You just have to try to ignore it and move on with life.
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I'm 29, so I have more experience than I could want on this lol. It's different for every person. Not only that, but each ex (assuming you have more than one meaningful relationship in your life before you find "the one", if that happens) is different as well. Each person handles loss differently and each person who as touched your life will be a different experience. I can't state that enough. The point is, only the passage of time helps, at least from my experience. I've only dated three women who I considered spending the rest of my life with. One I actually did pop the question to. So when that relationship ended you'd think she was the hardest to get over, right? Nope, not by a long shot. Studies have shown that, on average, it takes two years to get over someone who broke your heart. The last relationship I had ended a year and a half ago. She was not the one I was engaged to either. But she has been the hardest, by a country mile. Just the other day I was pretty depressed about it. A year and a half later and I could still feel like she might come home any minute. That really sucks. But at the very same time, I have to admit that I know for a fact it is easier now than say two months after we broke up. Today is a little easier than this past month, which was a little easier than the month before it. So-on and so forth. My point is, time does heal, if you let it. I find it very hard on days where I THINK ABOUT HER. Yes it's hard not to sometimes, but you can only be stuck in the past if you let yourself be stuck in the past! Now I concentrate on work, and I took up several new hobbies. And sure, at first I never thought I could stop reminiscing about the ol' days, but the reminiscing went away on it's own. Instead of sitting on the couch thinking about this or that about some woman, I was thinking about how I was going to fix the second gear in my motorcycle without splitting the crank case, or what color I should paint my guitar shell, or how to maximize my time at work. Then before you know it, a year has gone by, and a cute girl you met last week has caught your imagination and life moves on.
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Are you a musician? If so write a song about how you feel. If you have a diary then do the same but maybe without song structure.
As you're still young this will happen many times. If you look like some of the really handsome guys on GTP it will surly happen a lot.
Unfortunately it's part of life.
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Listen to this.
Then listen to this.
Then listen to this.
A few pointers
* Hypnosis
* becoming gay
* get another girlfriend ASAP
* start to think about all her bad traits, bad habbits, fights you guys got. Start thinking about her in the worst way possible and after a while you will feel better and are happy to got rid of her.
* Hypnosis
* becoming gay
* get another girlfriend ASAP
* start to think about all her bad traits, bad habbits, fights you guys got. Start thinking about her in the worst way possible and after a while you will feel better and are happy to got rid of her.
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Beer, then Rum.
Works for a few hours, then you remember, then you do the 'sister' thing on Facebook. Twice, if she happens to have two sisters.
Then she phones you up and tells you how much she hates you, and about everything that's wrong with you.
A little more Rum, and some Foreigner ("I want to know what love is") through earphones at full volume, with yourself on lead vocals of course... then it's sleepy time.
The next day you feel like a total plank, and the shame suppresses the feelings of longing, plus since she probably called you a sociopath and a looser within the last 10 hours, along with telling you that all the stuff you did to try and make her happy was stupid, you might begin to resent her a little more...
Then, when the lonely hours of the evening come, you can do it all over again.
On second thoughts.... don't do any of that.
Works for a few hours, then you remember, then you do the 'sister' thing on Facebook. Twice, if she happens to have two sisters.
Then she phones you up and tells you how much she hates you, and about everything that's wrong with you.
A little more Rum, and some Foreigner ("I want to know what love is") through earphones at full volume, with yourself on lead vocals of course... then it's sleepy time.
The next day you feel like a total plank, and the shame suppresses the feelings of longing, plus since she probably called you a sociopath and a looser within the last 10 hours, along with telling you that all the stuff you did to try and make her happy was stupid, you might begin to resent her a little more...
Then, when the lonely hours of the evening come, you can do it all over again.
On second thoughts.... don't do any of that.
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Cant wait for Christmas though, getting an Xbox. Now that is what I`m looking forward to in the future haha. Hopefully I`ll have forgotten it all by then, but then again its just the after thought of it all. Just sucks. She was a 🤬 but still I somehow miss her. Oh well, guess I`ll just have to look forward to Christmas or somet.Such is life. At 14, a lot of things don't make sense. I'm 19 and women still don't make sense
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