Gf problems

[Darrenlad]

Me and my gf fell out on Xmas day she was only in the house for like 10mins and phoned her mum to go home sense weh had a bit of a fall out about her being on her phone all the time she stoped bringing her phone down for ages because it was going off none stop but the past 3 weeks she's been bringing it down to my and shes always on it none stop now sense xmas day we've been not really talkin and where used to sendin texts back and forward right way now she's taking 4-6 hours it a time now am sure she's being meetin a other man she finshed her ex bf to me and she was unfaithful the 1st week buh gave her a chance and she truned out to be ok after 3 mouths of going out it's now comeing up for a year and maybe think it's better for me just to walk away and stay away :/

 

[McLaren]

I'd give you an opinion, but I can't make out where one sentence starts & where another one ends.

 

[Schwartz]

Nice sentence. You. Should. Add. A. Few. More. Periods. Next. time. On GTPlanet you are supposed to use correct grammar so it is easier for people who's first language isn't english to understand you. Anyway, I would just leave it be. It creates less drama. Drama = Bad for everyone.

 

[Darrenlad]

I'd give you an opinion, but I can't make out where one sentence starts & where another one ends.

Yeah it it's a bit mixed :/ a start saying some thing then a think about something the next thing you know am writhing it down

 

[TommyWizard]

If she means something to you, then apologize for the way you behaved and promise to make it up to her somehow.

If you think though she is seeing someone else, tell her to go with him because if she loved you then she wouldn't have fallen for someone else.

 

[Darrenlad]

If she means something to you, then apologize for the way you behaved and promise to make it up to her somehow.

If you think though she is seeing someone else, tell her to go with him because if she loved you then she wouldn't have fallen for someone else.

Yeah that's the way a see it she's not worth it if she's like that

 

[TommyWizard]

But by all means dont rush into a firm decision. I give my girlfriend chance after chance (she kept missing dates and making excuses etc etc) but it turned out her reasons where valid ever time. Something her dad told me when she was out of the room a few nights ago!

 

[F1 fan]

Yeah that's the way a see it she's not worth it if she's like that

I can understand you, but others might not be able to. You should probably take a look at this. Remember that there are users from all over the world here. Some may not be able to deduce that a = I.

 

[Darrenlad]

I can understand you, but others might not be able to. You should probably take a look at this. Remember that there are users from all over the world here. Some may not be able to deduce that a = I.

Yeah true my grammar it's rubbish never spent that much it school due to moveing all the time lol

 

[bergauk]

Give her a chance to cool down. Then sit down and have a serious talk with her about everything. If she's not even willing to sit down and talk to you about anything then she isn't worth it. Be sure that you have some things to talk to her about as well. If it concerns you that she may not be faithful then let her know about it.

 

[Villain]

If she means something to you, then apologize for the way you behaved and promise to make it up to her somehow.

Disagree.

Don't apologize for anything. It's not your fault that you asked her to not be on her phone constantly when she came to your house on Christmas. She's showing a lack of respect to you and your family for having her over. Then she calls her mom to pick her up after 10 minutes? 👎

Honestly, that's grounds enough for me to break it off. I would sit her down and tell her the things that are really bothering you. If she's not willing to show she's able to respect you and the things you're asking her (asking her to ease up on her phone is not asking alot) then she's gotta go.

Give her a chance to cool down. Then sit down and have a serious talk with her about everything. If she's not even willing to sit down and talk to you about anything then she isn't worth it. Be sure that you have some things to talk to her about as well. If it concerns you that she may not be faithful then let her know about it.

I agree.


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Try to think of your girlfriend in two ways. In one way, imagine that she is your employee. Would you fire her? Would you be willing to tolerate her behaviour if she was just a random girl who you were a supervisor of?

In the other way, imagine it the other way around. Imagine that you work for her. Would you talk to a supervisor the way you talk to her? Would you continue to work for someone who treated you that way?

Those are perspectives on respect. For a relationship to last, she needs to be your best friend. You should have a better relationship with her than you do anyone else because she is probably who you will (and want to) spend the majority of your time with. You can't let her walk all over you and you can't go walking all over her either.

You two should be able to meet on equal ground and have the maturity and ability to talk conflicts out without them escalating. If every little argument has to turn into some huge deal then you guys might just be incompatible and you should just cut your losses and count it as a learning experience.

 

[RTSolvalou]

Ugh, one of those 'phone girls'. Dispose of immediately.
If you can somehow access her criminal history, you may find she has in the past been found guilty and convicted of watching jersey shore, gossip girl and regularly being in the presence of all manner of kardashian paraphernalia, by choice. Never a good sign.

Here's a stupid quote that is both useful and useless:
"you will know when you have found the right person, because everything works out perfectly".
The trick is understanding that 'perfect' isn't 'perfect'... but that's why it's perfect!...

 

[Dennisch]

Weeeh

Can I ask how old you are?

 

[Darrenlad]

Can I ask how old you are?

Weeh mean with in Scottish lingo it's just way way am used to writing

 

[Dennisch]

Weeh mean with in Scottish lingo it's just way way am used to writing

Yeah, that's just to shorten your rant. But again, how old are you.


And the way you write will get you some attention from the moderators and admins.

 

[Darrenlad]

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[Darrenlad]

Yeah, that's just to shorten your rant. But again, how old are you.

And the way you write will get you some attention from the moderators and admins.

Do you want me to pull my dictionary out ? Will you stop crying then ?

 

[Dennisch]

Do you want me to pull my dictionary out ? Will you stop crying then ?

Yeah. Because you hurt my feelings.

But for the 3rd time. How? old? are? you?

Answer my question, pretty please.

 

[fryercar]

Troll meets girl,,,,,
Troll falls for girl,,,,
Troll gets girl (kinda) ,,,
Girl looks elsewhere ,,,
Troll.

Here's an idea.
Confront real life issues in real life atmosphere.

 

[Darrenlad]

Troll meets girl,,,,,
Troll falls for girl,,,,
Troll gets girl (kinda) ,,,
Girl looks elsewhere ,,,
Troll.

Here's an idea.
Confront real life issues in real life atmosphere.

Where not all like you

 

[fryercar]

Where not all like you

Don't they teach you English in the UK? (troll bait)

 

[Darrenlad]

Yeah. Because you hurt my feelings.

But for the 3rd time. How? old? are? you?

Answer my question, pretty please.

My age it's not shown for a reason next your be asking what colour my underwear it's pedo

 

[Famine]

With that I think we're about done here.

You may be "used to writing" in some form of patois, but you agreed to the Acceptable Use Policy before you joined this site:

You will post all messages in English.
You will not use “textspeak” (“r”, “u”, “plz”, etc.) in your messages. Decent grammar is expected at all times, including proper usage of capital letters.

You agreed to this. There is no exemption. Bring your standards up to meet those to which you agreed.