Sorry to hear she died at a young age. My mother stopped smoking some years ago, I followed and then my dad also stopped smoking. I started smoking at around 14, but that was just trying. When I was 15 I had a girl who smoked and I began smoking with her and after some time I started buying my own cigarettes. October first 2011 I stopped smoking. It was strange.. I went to my grandmother that day because my granddad died on that die a few years earlier (of cancer). Lighted the first and it was very nasty and was suddenly against it. Didn't smoke that day and kept that going for a year. Now occasionally I take a cigarette from a colleague, now that's a stress relieve. I really like doing that, take a cigarette now and then... And after that I don't want a cigarette, that one is enough for the day. Or week. It's really strange but sometimes I just want one and that one is more than enough.
Though I have yet to meet a cigarette that gives me a better stress relieve than weed