OK, I received a email about this thread from tank yesterday. As its a private email, I won't reveal its contents, but let's say it was related to my experience as being a moderator at a couple of forums over the last few years.
However, I can post my own email response, which went as follows (remember this was written yesterday)
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Well, to be honest, I wouldn't go about doing anything. Its not illegal to show a flag as an avatar. I seem to have seen quite a number of people using the stars and stripes in some shape or form in avatars or signatures. That might bother some people just as much.
So really, just live with it. Its only a flag, nothing special. To claim someone is doing something wrong by showing a flag is really pretty silly, and you can't have everyone happy. Sometimes its best to just bite your lip, especially if your only reasoning is that it bothers you.
I say this with one of my older brothers in Southern Iraq right now heading for Basra.
This is being labelled as a war on Saddam, not a war on Iraq or its people. Earlier today the stars and stripes was raised over a captured Iraqi city.
Shorly afterwards, it was lowered again, and rightly so. The flag shouldn't have been raised in the first place saying as we are meant to be liberating the country from Saddam and his regime, not its own nationality and identity.
Hopefully in a few years the Iraqi flag will be shown as a sign of what can be done as it will need rebuilding and the UN will take on that role.
We are invading Iraq to remove Saddam and destroy his weapons.
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Now that was yesterday without reading this thread, and I've since seen myself proven right with Tank indeed using the stars and stripes in his avatar.
How's that any different? We're all entitled to freedom of speech remember and just because you don't support a war or the justification of this war, does not mean you can't or don't support the troops and wish them to return home safely. (And don't forget that some Iraqi troops do not wish to fight, and others are doing so knowing that desertion may well lead to the deaths of their familes.)
I don't know if I support this war. Its not the black and white so many would like us to believe and the truth is countless shades of grey laden with hypocrisy, lies, bullying and arrogance on all sides.
But I do support my brother, his comrades and all the coalition troops out there doing their job because its what they were ordered to do.