I guess I was just asking for a little guidance instead of "Moderators here are GOD and we close threads" which is painfully clear. So good luck with that
Think I will look for a more chill Forum where discussion is actually encouraged.
Discussion is encouraged. Pointless or off-topic meandering is
not encouraged, particularly not if it is in rant form.
I suspect that you don't really have a grasp of the scale of this place and how much effort it takes to moderate it, which is probably why you expect each new user to be taken gently in hand and politely taught all the fine points of this forum and how to get along... all of which they could figure out if they spent a little time getting used to the way this forum works (both from a user-driven standpoint and from a moderation standpoint).
The staff here has to deal with anywhere from 800-1500 active users at any particular moment we happen to come online here. We typically have to review and process something like 200-300 new-user replies, and probably 100-150 new-user threads,
in any given 24 hour period. That's a normal day. If PD or Sony happens to so something that pisses off or overjoys every gamer in the wide world of GT, those numbers can easily double.
Some fraction of those users are going to become contributing, worthwhile members. Some of that fraction will start out that way and some will figure it out after a little. But the majority just want to come here, be spoon-fed their particular answer of the moment with minimal effort on their part, and will never be seen again when their short attention spans drag them off elsewhere.
With our user count approaching
170,000, we're probably in the top 500 largest forums
on any subject on the entire internet. We have a large staff and some have only been promoted in the last few months to help handle the onslaught. However,
none of us do this as a full-time job, and none of us is paid by anything other than our own satisfaction.
So look at it from our side and understand that we need to do our best here, but we need to balance the amount of time spent carefully, politely guiding new users against the efficiency and speed with which we can process their first posts. Would you prefer that each new post gets a detailed, friendly editorial response from the staff, if it meant that new posts might show up days after they were made?
We do enjoy volunteering here,
but we also have jobs, families, and real lives. Those come first and always will. If that disgruntles a few easily-disgruntled people, that's honestly the breaks. It's just not worth it to invest too much time in any random user in order to nurture each to loving fullness, since that will mean hundreds of other posts sit for longer and longer, and the bulk of the newbs aren't really going to stay long or add much anyway.
That may sound brutal, but it is the fundamental nature of the situation. Honestly, if any particular user is A) a problem, and B) instantly offended by getting a thread closed, then they probably are not going to be a good long-term citizen here. How much effort is worth wasting, if it could be put to better use elsewhere?
Give up. If you don't like it take it up with the mod. If you don't like and won't accept his answer go to a different forum.
Anybody is welcome to take issue with the moderation, as long as they do it at least semi-politely and in a reasonable manner (not really the case here). If the mod in question doesn't respond satisfactorily when addressed reasonably, then contact an administrator. He has 2 out of the 3 of us looking at this thread, so I would say he has our attention, even though he didn't make much effort to approach us about his issue before teeing off. If contacting the admins still is not satisfying, PM Jordan. He will follow up... but he also has a life and other duties keeping this place open for you to use, enjoy, or complain about.