Yeah, the joy of consumable health items, right? 😅
The two Blue Eye Knights just before the Tower Knight area are good for farming Half Moon Grass. Its a good grinding spot as well. I assume any weapon would be good enough. Is your Falchion upgraded in anyway? I just went for a strength build with turning the Claymore into a Crushing Claymore. It did the job against the Flamelurker quite nicely. Altho, I did two hand for the enitre fight.
Don't know why she hasn't turned up for you yet. Maybe time to look up some Youtube vids or something?
I think I've found out my problem with the Flamelurker. Some say not to use shields against him. But my Heater Shield is at +6 and I did try blocking against him and it did quite a good job.
My Falchion is +7 but without enchanting it with magic, it's not that effective. With magic, it gets his health going pretty quickly.
Where I was going wrong was being too greedy. Running at him and trying to slash him 6 times in one go.
Patience is key- slash him a couple of times, run away. Wait for him to attack, run out of range, slash, repeat.
Even if it takes half an hour, I don't care 🤣 Yet to go back, though. Ain't losing any souls until I get my magic right up.
I've got a nice number of souls saved up 🤗 Keep on organic farming in Boletaria 5, 10, 15 times, not worried. It's satisfying slicing and dicing my way through dredglings and Boletarian Knights. It puts a particularly big smile on my face when I use the Dragon Long Sword +3 (thanks Ed!) to carve through the Blue Eyed Knights 🤩 It works wonders against those skeletons in Shrine of Storms. Carves 'em up like Thanksgiving turkeys.
Only ones I try to avoid are the Black Katana Skeletons and the Red Eye Knight. Sometimes, if I can be bothered, I'll lead him to fall down the steps to his death, hehe. Perhaps in another 15 levels, I'll be strong enough to view them as complete jokes and slice them like dredglings.
As for ER, I think many people are saying what you told me. You have to go to the site of grace at Stormgate? and then she appears. No doubt I'll get to her eventually 👍