It feels opposite to me. I seem to lose control way too often in FM4 without control.
Perhaps I'm too used to GT5, where I drive aggressively and produce great lap times. In FM4, I fly off the track in some corners because I'm too aggressive
The 2 games seem so different to me in the physics department. I can't honestly say which one is closer to the real deal since I don't really race IRL. But I do drive fast at times, on windy roads and around some corners near my house. I haven't flown off the road yet, so I'd have to give the upper hand to GT5
This is the thing, playing FM4 at first i was like...... ice rink. Even more so than FM3. I sort of agreed with your comment above in bold.
But then lets be rational here, i've driven on track days and I played FM4 yesterday and decieded to look at the speedo as i approach corners. I'm going in at way excessive speeds! No wonder!
See its a game and the fear isnt there so i'm heading into corners at 80-100 mph!! So i took a step back and drove like i would IRL. And then it hits you, more so than FM3 more so than GT5.
Similar dare i say to Shift 2 and Race Pro, in that if you go to fast it will punish you, it wont flatter to decieve like GT5 or other games.
Once you get this you can then push till just on edge of the limit, and then thats the joy of Forza, hell thats the joy of driving on the limit full stop.....