(Don't worry it's not all going to be a week-by-week account of the Decade!! It just helps to know the beginning!!!)
My decade began back in England, although not for long, I spent the 3rd week of January 2000 in Dubai on business, flying out on the Friday 15th to begin work on the Saturday as the Islamic "weekend" is Thurs/Fri!
I'd had a move to the USA in the back of my mind for a while, but was holding out for a trip to Japan before I did...
Given that I was spending so much time in the USA anyway (20 weeks of 1999) it seemed like a good thing to consider, (salary higher, cost of living less) and with no sign of a trip to Japan forthcoming coupled with the huge argument I'd had with my new boss at the end of November 1999, I'd decided I didn't want to work for him anymore and thus brought forth the plans to secure a US based position...
(Despite not turning down any business trips during 1999 {28 weeks outside UK in all!!!} and taking on other people's too so they could take vacation, the guy had the gall to say I'd planned things poorly when I reached December with 3 weeks "use-it-or-lose-it" vacation time remaining. I had just offered to work during December {a busy month due to it's relative shortness as the factory closes down for 2 weeks between Xmas & New year, meaning that what normally gets done in 30 days in a normal month has to be finished by Christmas Eve.} if he'd be willing to compensate me for it by buying back my unused vacation time. When he dropped the "it's your fault" bomshell, I booked the 3 weeks preceding Xmas off, dovetailling 3 weeks of vacation into 2 weeks of mandatory Xmas holiday and left with a "See you in January!" comment.
He was livid!
Serves him right for being a knob about it I suppose.
This was also coupled with him calling me out for spending $400 on a customer entertainment meal, somewhat unjustly. Here's how things work: For each instrument that we installed it was generally expected that we took 1 or 2 representatives out for dinner during the install and were not expected to spend more than $150. I'd been on the same customer site for 4 weeks, in Austin, TX in November 1999 installing 4 new systems (out of 6 system $1.5 million order they'd placed on the back of the data they'd got from an initial system I'd installed for them in June 1999 and they'd especially made it clear they wanted me (not any other engineer) back to do the November startups. Instead of taking 4 trips out {1 for each system} I took 8 people out to dinner at once mid-way through the 4th week. 1 of them was the company owner (a fellow Brit), who collected me from the hotel in a 1939 right-hand drive coachbuilt Rolls-Royce he'd imported from England with him! $400 for dinner for 9 people seemed pretty reasonable (and under the technical $600 {4 x $150} limit that I was supposedly bound to) given the customer's $1.5 million spent! Somehow my boss didn't see it that way and bollocked me in front of my co-workers for such an extravagant meal, refusing to listen to any of my reasoning and at the time outright refusing to discuss my vacation situation (that happened the following week!)
Starting to see why I no longer wanted to work for him?!!!)
Arrived back in UK from Dubai on Jan 21st and my passport shows I arrived in Boston on Jan 25th!!! I didn't leave the USA until April 7th!!! Again 10 weeks of business, not a job refused, but all the while unable to use any of my vacation time! See why it was difficult to plan vacation time?
During these 10 weeks I interviewed (I say "interviewed", I asked the Service Manager if he was still interested in hiring a factory pre-trained engineer and he asked 2 questions: What salary are you after? & When can you start?!!!) with the US service operation. I was offered a position in Cincinnatti (Still can't spell it properly either!) which I was OK with (anything not to be working for the guy in UK), but really wanted SF area, and they knew that.
Started the US Visa application process when I returned to UK. Shortly afterwards I did finally (I'd been waiting 3 years) get sent out to Japan for 2 weeks at the end of April 2000.
Once again, my passport shows I returned to UK from Japan on Saturday May 6th and by Sunday 14th May I was back in USA for another 3 week business trip!
Took a windsurfing vacation in June, followed by another business trip to Slovenia for a week at the end of the month. With US Visa progressing nicely I decided it was time to break the news to my boss, with my letter of resignation (4-weeks working notification) and transfer to US. He wasn't best pleased. I was his most experienced engineer left after the 3 guys who started on the same day as me had all also sought alternative positions within the company after deciding they too couldn't work for this guy!
He first begged me to stay, secondly told me I
had to stay to train new guys, and thirdly even threatened to try and sabotage my transfer by saying he could put a bad word in for me with upper management so that the US operation wouldn't hire me!
Perhaps not surprisingly he didn't really have an answer when I replied "Honestly, if you were so small-minded and petty to try something like that and ruin my career decision, what the hell makes you think that I'd actually stay and work for you?!!!" Yup, he was that kind of guy.
Preparations were full-steam ahead, and I got a phone call in the UK factory about 2 weeks before I was due to leave... "I think I know the answer, but I have to check" said my new boss, "We know you're preparing for Ohio, but a vacancy has come up in SF area, would you like that instead?"
I can't say it's the longest decision time I've ever taken. I think I'd said yes before he'd finished the question!!!
Best news of 2000! So I thought, and I booked my flight for Aug 27th.
Better yet was to come! My final week in UK was spent running a class for other engineers. I took them out in the city on Friday night, as well as many of my co-workers who knew it was my "leaving-do".
I met my "wife-to-be" in a bar that night, just 48 hours before leaving England! D'oh!
Thankfully the world is a small place now thanks to good international phone service, e-mails, internet & jetplanes!
It was easy to keep in touch. 👍
We did the long distance thing for 2 1/2 years. 3 months together (she came out here) 3 months apart, etc. before marrying in 2003.
Sorry about the long windedness, but that's how I came to be here!
The rest (highs & lows):
What was supposed to be a 3-year temporary contract has now turned into permanent Green-Card employment, and I've completed my first decade in the USA (more-or-less)! Definitely a positive.
I'm still enjoying the work! (Possibly positive, possibly insanity.
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I've learned to snowboard thanks to our proximity to Tahoe! Definitely a positive.
We bought our first house in 2006! Definitely a positive. (Although we bought at the peak of the market which isn't so good!!! 👎)
We celebrated 6 years of marriage! Definitely a positive.
I bought a Miata & a 911. Definitely a positive. 👍👍
I've met a tonne of wonderful folks through
both online and in person at 2 UKGTP meetings and 5 SFGTPs. Definitely a positive. 👍
We've had almost all of our immediate families visit us out here. Definitely a positive. (Wouldn't have happened if I'd been in Ohio!!)
Saw both my siblings get married. 👍
My niece (my sister's daughter) & nephew (my brother's son) were born just 9 days apart in Dec 2008. Definitely a positive.
We make (I go more regularly than
itgirlxx due to work) regular trips back to UK to see family & friends. Good & Bad - great to be there & see everyone but it's a long & expensive journey!
Had some awesome holidays, Aruba for our honeymoon, whisky-trail in Scotland, roadtrips to Eastern Sierra Nevada / Grand-Canyon / Southern Utah National Parks (in the Miata) and the Northern California Coast / Oregon Coast / Portland brewery tour (in the Porsche.)
I never have to work on my birthday anymore & I get free fireworks every year!!
The only downside to work here I can think of is the reduced vacation allowance in the USA (I'm back up to 4 weeks now as I've completed over 10 years with the company) but I left 25 days plus more holidays behind in UK! Oh well, you can't have it all ways.
The one big, big low of the decade for me was the loss of my Grandad on Christmas Eve 2007, just 1 day after his 88th birthday.
So that's it, bye-bye "The Noughties" entered at 25, left at 35. All in all a great experience and I'm hoping the next decade brings new challenges and as much fun as the last.
*Edit* Almost forgot...(as if this post needs to be any longer.
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We toasted the end of the old decade & the beginning of the new in style:
Yeah that's a 1/3rd sized bottle (not huge glasses!
) we got from the Glenfiddich Distillery a couple of years ago and had been saving for a significant event. I've been dying to try it since I read about it, but have been remarkably restrained in being tempted to crack it open as it's a tad on the pricey side. Gorgeous though...