Things like that take practice.
My team mate Steven got his wheel more then a month ago and he can't seem to get a hold of it. Like you, he went back to DS3 because it was too hard for him. (its not too hard for anyone truly)
If you ever want to be good at anything you have to put in work, and keep at it. You can't expect to drift like Aasbo or something on first or second or even third attempt man.
If you practice everyday, or at least consistently in some form or another, I promise you'll get there one day.