I also agree with what you said about respecting what restrictions a host sets up in their lobby. But it's just annoying when they think that is the only way to drift and they take that attitude outside of lobbies.
Hit the nail on the head there!
I usually drift FR/CH, because that's what I'm comfortable with. But I am fully aware that there are other ways to skin that drifting cat, and I respect them, as long as there isn't any interference with what is going on in the room.
To me, the tires are the bigger issue. I've drifted on CH while others were on CM or CS without much of a problem. Sports tires on the other hand, just don't mix. I've actually started to see lobbies labeled along the lines of "sports tire drifting", which I think is awesome. The room is named properly, and hopefully the people in it have a better experience because of it. I don't join those lobbies, as I know my CH tired cars will be obstacles for them....but I still respect what they are doing.
I have less issue with 4WD. I know a couple people who use them from time to time, and can actually tandem with reasonable success. I know others who use 4WD, and who actually don't try to tandem, but want to be in the room with their friends to chat on the mic while running solo. I have absolutely no issue with this.
As has been mentioned, it all comes down to etiquette and respect.
As Dan mentioned, what really boils my blood is when the "enforcement" of these lobby rules extends outside of the lobbies, specifically here on GTP. If people want to
talk about 4WD drifting, or non-CH drifting, they should be able to do so here without "pros" jumping in their thread, telling them they are doing it wrong and ruining the sport of drifting.
One specific example from about a year ago:
I had someone on PSN ask me for help tuning their Evo to drift. I said that I couldn't help, as I know nothing about it. I gave the person the names of a few people I thought could help, and also directed them to GTP.
About a week later, the person wrote back to me to say thanks for the PSN names, as they had helped, but also made a comment about GTP, saying "I got a few 4WD tunes from the tuning thread, but I skimmed through the drift forums, and damn if there isn't a lot of :censored:holes there."
This saddened me deeply, as the person seemed pretty chill, and we had lost a potential new member of the community.
At the end of the day, no matter how realistic GT gets, it is a video game. All kinds of people will play it for all kinds of different reasons. Some will try to recreate real life as accurately as possible....others will try to deviate from real life as much as possible. Neither are wrong.
Is that "backwards NSX/Civic" drifting video realistic? Not even close. But it's still hella cool!!
I would love to see the day where, instead of people jumping into threads to cut others down in a negative way, they would make their own threads to convey their approach to drifting in a positive way. All we can do is put information out there, let people evaluate it for themselves, and make their own choices.