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Last week I started talking to my ex-girlfriend Nicole (god I hate calling her that) again. After talking for about an hour she reminds me that he is going to be moving to Georgia the following week. We get to talking some more and she brings up that she wants to get matching rings with one of her friends before she goes. She then asks me if I would like to be the one that she gets the rings with. I say sure and that I would be happy to do it with her. We decide on getting silver rings and getting them engraved, so I start looking for some rings. The next night she calls me again and we get to talking some more and she says that she would be perfectly fine if I got her a nicer ring than just a plain silver band and that she likes rings with Onyx and Sapphire in them. That night I sit at the computer and start looking for a ring for her. Unfortunately it looks like all of the bands for women are to narrow to get engraved and there isn't a single local place that sells womens rings with Onyx in them. Finally on Friday I find the perfect Sapphire ring.
The next (Saturday) day after I wake up and get dressed and cleaned up I call Nicole whom I have known for 4 years to see what time we where going to meet up. I tell here that I still have to go out and get her ring. THIS IS THE ONE I PICKED. So I take off from my place and head to Shane Co. I walk into the place and find the setting very odd ( you would have had to been there) so I wander around looking for where the sapphires are and one of the people that work there as if they can help, blah...blah...blah... I will say that it was an absolute no pressure kinna thing. I give the item number to the woman helping me out and she goes to get one. It turns out that they have two, one had a lighter color blue and the other was darker. She asked me which one I would like to get and I picked the darker blue (If someone knows can you tell me if I made the right choice) then I ask if they have it in a size 7 and it turns out that they only stock a size 6 but you can bring it in and have it resized for free. Next I ask if it was big enough to have it engraved because Nicole was getting my ring engraved and I wanted to do the same for her. It turns out that the band on the ring is less than 2mm and about 2.5mm is need for it to be engraved. I was sad because this ring is perfect for her and I cant give it my own touch. I was going to have the ring engraved to say "I'm your blue eyes" because one of the things she first said to me was "I love your eyes". So I pay for the ring and get it gift wrapped and call her.
Not much time goes by and she shows up and she tells me where she parked, which is really close to where I am but I couldn't find her. After 3-5 minuets I find her and get into her car. I say hi and she makes fun of me because I couldn't see her, she then grabs her purse and pulls out a small black box I open it and its my ring (I knew it was) so I read what she had engraved in it. It said "I'm glad I asked ~ GNM" referring to the first things she said to me which where "Your names Kenneth right?" then she asked "Can I have your E-Mail address?" any way here are the pictures of my ring.
Then I give her her ring, she takes the bag and pulls the box out and starts to unwrap it then says aww screw it and rips it (one of the the reasons I love her) he gets the gift wrapping of and opens the box and says "Oh wow"..."Thank you". Whats funny is she is a lot like me in that she isn't very good at sowing that she appreciates something, but I got the point in that she kept looking at it the whole time I was with her.
We go into a few stores and then head back to her place. This is where it gets a little PG-13, after her mom walks back out side she says "You weren't expecting any where you?" I say "What?" then she says "You weren't expecting to get any where you?" I smile and say "No no no I don't expect anything like that" she says "Ok I wanted to make sure because I have gotten something like this and and the guy that gives it to me expects to get some" I just smiled and said "No I'm not like that".
After sitting around bored as hell I say hey lets go see a movie or something. We check to see what playing at the theater...there wasn't a whole hell of a lot. After looking at whats playing we decide to go to "I now pronounce you Chuck and Larry" but it starts at 5:10 and its 3:40ish. So I talk her in to going bowling. We get to the bowling ally and I go up to get a lane then I see how much it is per game per person. It was $4 per game per person then $2.50 for shoes per game per person. I damn near yelled out WTF!, but I didn't. We get over to our lane and set up a game. She then goes off to get some water and when she gets back she sets her cup on the counter behind us. After I go she goes and now I am in the lead with a spare and her two gutter balls. She goes to get a sip of water and one of the guys that work there took her cup and through it away. Now she is pissed, not only did the cup have cold water in it the guy how took it saw her set it down. After some swearing and frustration she goes and gets three cups of water and takes a sharpie and wrights on each one "Mine Not Yours". After the first game I can tell that she isn't that in to being there seeing as her foot is broken and she isn't wearing her removable cast. She insisted on a second game. I say Ok and we go at it again. She ended up killing me 86 to 45 (we both suck
). Now its 4:30 something so we take off to go to the movie.
We get to the mall where the theater is and things start going down hill and FAST! First off we couldn't find somewhere to park. There is parking under the theater so I tell her to go there. She doesn't know the area well and starts stressing out. Normally I park in the parking garage across from the theater so I don't know why I told her to go under the theater. She said "Can we just go tomorrow?" I say "sure". She pulls out of the underground parking and starts to cry.
She pulls in to a near by parking lot parks the car and really lets it out. I started to think that I did something to bring this in so I start feeling like S***. She then tells me that she feels like she is going to puke and that she feels guilty because we where suppose to see a movie and because of her we weren't. I tell her if your sick your sick there isn't anything you can do about it. Then this is how your conversation went. N = her, K = me.
N) *crying*"Your angry at me aren't you?"
K) "No I'm not angry at you"
N) *crying*"I know you are, I always do this. Something always comes up and I can't hang out with you or I have to brake our plans"
K) "I'm not angry, mad, or pissed or anything."
N) *crying*"I feel really bad, you gave me this beautiful ring and here I am breaking off what we had planed"
K) "Its ok"
N) *starting to stop crying*"Are you sure you aren't mad at me?"
K) "Yes I'm sure"
N) "I guess part of it is that I never expect to get anything back when I give someone else something. I never have, I give a lot of poor people gifts and I know that I'm not going to get anything back from them. And you give me this ring and I am doing this"
K) "Its ok really, you know its really hard for me to get angry at you its just not how I am. How can I get angry at someone I love so much"
N) *starts balling her eyes out*
K) *I get her calmed down*
N) "This isn't how this was suppose to go. I was going to walk you to your car say good night and give you a kiss. Its your going to be your first kiss and I don't want it to be like this"
K) "I don't have this planed out. How ever it happens it happens and I will be happy with it"
After some more talking that I would rather not share we get back to her place. We sit in the car and talk some more and she says that she will give me my kiss. We get out of her car and she asks "Do you want to go up to your car or do you want to walk up to my door?" I tell her that I want to walk her up to her door. As we are walking up to her door her dad starts coming down the street. So we head in side and go down the stairs next to the door and...well you get what happened next. I say good bye and and head to my car. I get in and buckle up and turn the radio on then turn it back off because it just wasn't doing it for me. I decide to go to my sisters because she just lives up the street and I want to talk to her about everything that just happened. I park go up to the door only to find out that she isn't home. I then head home and the whole way home for some reason I couldn't stand anything that was on the radio. When I get home I say hi to my dad and sit on the couch and watch the movie that he is watching. The whole time I can't concentrate on what going on and I keep tearing up. I'm not crying just tearing up, it was very odd.
Oh and here are a few more things.
My proof that I bought the ring.
And a video of Nicole singing. She is really good its hard for me to listen because when ever I do I get goose bumps.
The next (Saturday) day after I wake up and get dressed and cleaned up I call Nicole whom I have known for 4 years to see what time we where going to meet up. I tell here that I still have to go out and get her ring. THIS IS THE ONE I PICKED. So I take off from my place and head to Shane Co. I walk into the place and find the setting very odd ( you would have had to been there) so I wander around looking for where the sapphires are and one of the people that work there as if they can help, blah...blah...blah... I will say that it was an absolute no pressure kinna thing. I give the item number to the woman helping me out and she goes to get one. It turns out that they have two, one had a lighter color blue and the other was darker. She asked me which one I would like to get and I picked the darker blue (If someone knows can you tell me if I made the right choice) then I ask if they have it in a size 7 and it turns out that they only stock a size 6 but you can bring it in and have it resized for free. Next I ask if it was big enough to have it engraved because Nicole was getting my ring engraved and I wanted to do the same for her. It turns out that the band on the ring is less than 2mm and about 2.5mm is need for it to be engraved. I was sad because this ring is perfect for her and I cant give it my own touch. I was going to have the ring engraved to say "I'm your blue eyes" because one of the things she first said to me was "I love your eyes". So I pay for the ring and get it gift wrapped and call her.
Not much time goes by and she shows up and she tells me where she parked, which is really close to where I am but I couldn't find her. After 3-5 minuets I find her and get into her car. I say hi and she makes fun of me because I couldn't see her, she then grabs her purse and pulls out a small black box I open it and its my ring (I knew it was) so I read what she had engraved in it. It said "I'm glad I asked ~ GNM" referring to the first things she said to me which where "Your names Kenneth right?" then she asked "Can I have your E-Mail address?" any way here are the pictures of my ring.
Then I give her her ring, she takes the bag and pulls the box out and starts to unwrap it then says aww screw it and rips it (one of the the reasons I love her) he gets the gift wrapping of and opens the box and says "Oh wow"..."Thank you". Whats funny is she is a lot like me in that she isn't very good at sowing that she appreciates something, but I got the point in that she kept looking at it the whole time I was with her.
We go into a few stores and then head back to her place. This is where it gets a little PG-13, after her mom walks back out side she says "You weren't expecting any where you?" I say "What?" then she says "You weren't expecting to get any where you?" I smile and say "No no no I don't expect anything like that" she says "Ok I wanted to make sure because I have gotten something like this and and the guy that gives it to me expects to get some" I just smiled and said "No I'm not like that".
After sitting around bored as hell I say hey lets go see a movie or something. We check to see what playing at the theater...there wasn't a whole hell of a lot. After looking at whats playing we decide to go to "I now pronounce you Chuck and Larry" but it starts at 5:10 and its 3:40ish. So I talk her in to going bowling. We get to the bowling ally and I go up to get a lane then I see how much it is per game per person. It was $4 per game per person then $2.50 for shoes per game per person. I damn near yelled out WTF!, but I didn't. We get over to our lane and set up a game. She then goes off to get some water and when she gets back she sets her cup on the counter behind us. After I go she goes and now I am in the lead with a spare and her two gutter balls. She goes to get a sip of water and one of the guys that work there took her cup and through it away. Now she is pissed, not only did the cup have cold water in it the guy how took it saw her set it down. After some swearing and frustration she goes and gets three cups of water and takes a sharpie and wrights on each one "Mine Not Yours". After the first game I can tell that she isn't that in to being there seeing as her foot is broken and she isn't wearing her removable cast. She insisted on a second game. I say Ok and we go at it again. She ended up killing me 86 to 45 (we both suck
). Now its 4:30 something so we take off to go to the movie.We get to the mall where the theater is and things start going down hill and FAST! First off we couldn't find somewhere to park. There is parking under the theater so I tell her to go there. She doesn't know the area well and starts stressing out. Normally I park in the parking garage across from the theater so I don't know why I told her to go under the theater. She said "Can we just go tomorrow?" I say "sure". She pulls out of the underground parking and starts to cry.
She pulls in to a near by parking lot parks the car and really lets it out. I started to think that I did something to bring this in so I start feeling like S***. She then tells me that she feels like she is going to puke and that she feels guilty because we where suppose to see a movie and because of her we weren't. I tell her if your sick your sick there isn't anything you can do about it. Then this is how your conversation went. N = her, K = me.
N) *crying*"Your angry at me aren't you?"
K) "No I'm not angry at you"
N) *crying*"I know you are, I always do this. Something always comes up and I can't hang out with you or I have to brake our plans"
K) "I'm not angry, mad, or pissed or anything."
N) *crying*"I feel really bad, you gave me this beautiful ring and here I am breaking off what we had planed"
K) "Its ok"
N) *starting to stop crying*"Are you sure you aren't mad at me?"
K) "Yes I'm sure"
N) "I guess part of it is that I never expect to get anything back when I give someone else something. I never have, I give a lot of poor people gifts and I know that I'm not going to get anything back from them. And you give me this ring and I am doing this"
K) "Its ok really, you know its really hard for me to get angry at you its just not how I am. How can I get angry at someone I love so much"
N) *starts balling her eyes out*
K) *I get her calmed down*
N) "This isn't how this was suppose to go. I was going to walk you to your car say good night and give you a kiss. Its your going to be your first kiss and I don't want it to be like this"
K) "I don't have this planed out. How ever it happens it happens and I will be happy with it"
After some more talking that I would rather not share we get back to her place. We sit in the car and talk some more and she says that she will give me my kiss. We get out of her car and she asks "Do you want to go up to your car or do you want to walk up to my door?" I tell her that I want to walk her up to her door. As we are walking up to her door her dad starts coming down the street. So we head in side and go down the stairs next to the door and...well you get what happened next. I say good bye and and head to my car. I get in and buckle up and turn the radio on then turn it back off because it just wasn't doing it for me. I decide to go to my sisters because she just lives up the street and I want to talk to her about everything that just happened. I park go up to the door only to find out that she isn't home. I then head home and the whole way home for some reason I couldn't stand anything that was on the radio. When I get home I say hi to my dad and sit on the couch and watch the movie that he is watching. The whole time I can't concentrate on what going on and I keep tearing up. I'm not crying just tearing up, it was very odd.
Oh and here are a few more things.
My proof that I bought the ring.
And a video of Nicole singing. She is really good its hard for me to listen because when ever I do I get goose bumps.
