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I guess technically I'm atheist then. About 75% atheist and 25% agnostic.
To condone something means to approve of it.Ghost CCondoning and tolerating, in this situation (and in definition) are basically the same thing.
uhm, does that allow me to discriminate against blacks because they choose to be black?Ghost CYou know what really bugs me? The fact that people think that just because there are homosexuals, everyone has to tolerate them. You make a decision to be gay, I make a decision not to like, tolerate, or condone it.
You forget, this is the land of the free, for everyone. The door swings both ways, like it or not.
vladimiruhm, does that allow me to discriminate against blacks because they choose to be black?
vladimiruhm, does that allow me to discriminate against blacks because they choose to be black?
didn't you just say that gays chose their sexuality? blacks can become white, micheal jackson proved that, it may be expensive, but it is possible.Ghost CBecause as we all know, you really can choose what color your skin is.
vladimirdidn't you just said that gays could choose to become straight? blacks can become white, micheal jackson proved that, it may be expensive, but it is possible.
however, i have no clue how someone should change his sexuality. but you seem to know, any chance you could enlighten us?
excuse me, but you have still not told me how a homosexual makes a choice to become homosexual. would you be so kind and explain me how that works?Ghost CNo, I said homosexuals make a choice to be the way they are.
There's absolutely no comparison between not accepting someone because of their ethnicity, and not accepting someone because of their choices.
Stop rehashing the same argument over and over again.
If you'd never read that article, would the thought that Spongebob might be gay have ever crossed your mind for even a millisecond? I doubt it. Don't let yourself be led like that. The people who write that kind of article spend their whole lives looking for things to get their panties in a wad over, just so they can feel self-important.SilverzoneI really could care less what the gay community does to convert little kids. I just think its sick to show advertise homosexuality through a well known cartoon character. really low. really, really, really low. 👎
Can you offer even the slightest shred of evidence this is true? HAVE YOU EVER BEEN GAY?Silverzonethere is no way homosexuals are born homosexuals. It is a *misguided* decision each and every homosexual makes.
👍TenI doubt there's a "gay gene", but who knows. Some people just naturally prefer certain things to others. What can be said? You're going to crucify them for that?
Hell, if it meant avoiding a lifetime of ridicule from the masses, yeah, I'd go back to being hetero.
The thing is, I can't. Women do nothing for me sexually, and I, nor anyone I can think of, would be willing to spend their life with a person they just don't become sexually inspired by.
I'm sorry, that's just how it is. Call it an error if you want. I choose to embrace it. If you want to spend your life quibbling over how I spend mine, go ahead. I'll be over here being a heathen scumbag.
Twin studies and homosexuality
Bailey and Pillard (1991): occurrence of homosexuality among brothers
52% of identical (monozygotic) twins of homosexual men were likewise homosexual
22% of fraternal (dizygotic) twins were likewise homosexual
11% of adoptive brothers of homosexual men were likewise homosexual
J.M. Bailey and R.C. Pillard, A genetic study of male sexual orientation, Archives of General Psychiatry, vol. 48:1089-1096, December 1991.
Bailey and Pillard (1993): occurrence of homosexuality among sisters
48% of identical (monozygotic) twins of homosexual women were likewise homosexual (lesbian)
16% of fraternal (dizygotic) twins were likewise homosexual
6% of adoptive sisters of homosexual women were likewise homosexual
Bailey, J. M. and D. S. Benishay (1993), Familial Aggregation of Female Sexual Orientation, American Journal of Psychiatry 150(2): 272-277.
from Deborah Blum, Sex on the Brain: The Biological Differences Between Men and Women (NY: Viking, 1997), 132-133
" homosexuality has been around for countless generations without its nonreproductive aspect making a dent in the unbelievable flood of humanity across the planet. In fact, considering the march of human populationsome six billion and countingI could make the argument that the planet would be a little healthier if we had more same-sex couples and fewer heterosexual couples busy pursuing their reproductive potential.
The essential genetics may not directly code for homosexuality at all, but something correlated with it, Bailey emphasizes. Something thats advantageous. What is it? We dont know. The alternative idea is that its simply darned hard for biology to guarantee heterosexuality every time, that its not a stable system. The problem with that [theory] is that if its hormones that set sexual orientation, they dont seem to have much problem guaranteeing that men get penises. So, why cant they keep sexual orientation straight? On the other hand, homosexuality is very rare in other words, we dont know.
It was Bailey, with colleague Richard Dillard of Boston University, who set off todays zealous hunt for the genetics of sexual orientation. They put together a series of studies that almost everyone agrees established that theres a genetic something in sexual orientation. Everyone likes to nitpick, says Daryl Bern, a psychologist at Cornell University. In the end it comes down to whether you believe the data or not. I believe the data. And part of that is that I trust Mike Bailey. Hes very honest about what he has and hes very cautious in interpreting it.
In the early 1990s, Bailey and Dillard published a series of studies of twins, based on interviews with gay and straight brothers. Theres a solid logic to twin studies: basically, people produce two types of twinsmonozygotic (one egg, split) and dizygotic (two eggs, hanging out together). Most of us call monozygotic twins identical and dizygotic twins fraternal. The difference is more complex, and more interesting, than whether the twins have matching faces. Because they come from the same egg, identical twins get identical genetic materialbarring, say, the occasional mutation. Fraternal twins, from different eggs, are as genetically close as any other siblingsabout a 50 percent match. But, like identical twins, they share what scientists call a twinned environment. They develop in exactly the same amniotic fluid, equally exposed to whatever the mother eats or drinks. They age at the same rate, playing more closely than siblings separated by many years. Identical or fraternal, they are treated by others as a unit in the way that other siblings are not. If you want to search for heritable influences by comparing the tightly matched genetics of an identical twin to the standard genetic link between siblings, fraternal twins are the best way to do so. They let you filter out environmental interference.
Bailey and Pillard recruited 110 pairs of male twins, half identical, half fraternal. In each case, they knew that one twin was gay. They then sent a questionnaire to the other brother in each pair, to determine his sexual orientation. Among the identical twins, 52 percent of the brothers were gay. Among the fraternals, the number was 22 percent, high enough above the background population rate to suggest that there was something distinctive in those families. The researchers found a very similar pattern with lesbians.
And Bailey has looked for confirmation abroad. His recent study out of the Australian Twin Registry, with almost 5,000 participants (roughly 1,800 sets of twins and 1,300 unmatched twins), also tracked the same pattern. Bailey is quick to emphasize, too, that his initial study wasnt the first along these lines. A somewhat informal study in the 1940s, in which the researcher persisted in calling his subjects members of the underworld, also found a very high probability that if one identical twin was gay, the other would be as well.
Still, Bailey worries that the survey methodshe and Pillard advertised for participants through gay newspapersmay have produced slightly inflated results. That is, people who read advocacy newspapers, who choose to respond to a publicly advertised survey, who enjoy the scrutiny, who like to call attention to their lifestyle whatever it may be, may not reliably represent the entire community. That was one reason why he turned to the broader-based Australian studyand was reassured by the similar results." [emphasis added]
Yup. This is where I actually see logical reason to appreciate homosexuals.homosexuality has been around for countless generations without its nonreproductive aspect making a dent in the unbelievable flood of humanity across the planet. In fact, considering the march of human populationsome six billion and countingI could make the argument that the planet would be a little healthier if we had more same-sex couples and fewer heterosexual couples busy pursuing their reproductive potential.
i would not have thought that it was that hard...Ghost CLet me guess, this is the old "homosexuals are born that way" argument. Care to explain to me how that works? Provide some studies conducted by credible organizations stating that homosexuals are in fact born that way.
I'm guessing your atheist, which is exactly what I am, most of the time. However, there are times where I am somewhat believing in him.PublicSecrecyIf you don't believe in god, and you don't think he exists, and are skeptical of why everyone else believes in him, are you agnostic, atheist, or non-religious?