What Grinds your Gears?

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I know it is but I won't feel any better if I don't tell someone. Yes they are. It's over now. But I still feel like an ***.


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He liked her too and tricked her into it.

I'm guessing this friend received a severe punishment?
 
I don't think SF wants to talk about it much more, so I'd just leave it, however horrific it is.

Agreed, it's hard enough when someone goes through something involving one friend, but when it's involving two people who are close to you. :scared:
 
Agreed, it's hard enough when someone goes through something involving one friend, but when it's involving two people who are close to you. :scared:

Not to mention I've lost quite a few people close to me in recent months on top of it all.

I'll explain, as much as I don't want to, it'll probably help. Me and him grew up together and it ended up in a heated feud between who liked her more. Well she ended up over at his house and he kept talking to her etc (shes told me straight up she isn't like this and didn't want to) and eventually she just give in and did it. It went from there. It bothers me a lot but I'm only posting this because I know talking about bad situations helps me overcome them.

Thanks for understanding guys.
 
What's grinding my gears is having the worst strategies with girls ever. I just make bad decisions in terms of asking the girl out and stuff like that.
 
Not to mention I've lost quite a few people close to me in recent months on top of it all.

I'll explain, as much as I don't want to, it'll probably help. Me and him grew up together and it ended up in a heated feud between who liked her more. Well she ended up over at his house and he kept talking to her etc (shes told me straight up she isn't like this and didn't want to) and eventually she just give in and did it. It went from there. It bothers me a lot but I'm only posting this because I know talking about bad situations helps me overcome them.

Thanks for understanding guys.

I think the best thing she could have done was knee him in a sack and run. It would have been for self defence so it would have been all for a good cause.

What's grinding my gears is having the worst strategies with girls ever. I just make bad decisions in terms of asking the girl out and stuff like that.

As long as you don't sit there saying, "Will... (heavy breathing) you... (heavy breathing) go out... (heavy breathing)... With me... (faints)." As long as you don't do that you're fine. Or...

"Care... (creepy giggling) to give me... Heeheeheee, some lovin.... Heaaahahahah," that also won't get you far.
 
not to mention i've lost quite a few people close to me in recent months on top of it all.

I'll explain, as much as i don't want to, it'll probably help. Me and him grew up together and it ended up in a heated feud between who liked her more. Well she ended up over at his house and he kept talking to her etc (shes told me straight up she isn't like this and didn't want to) and eventually she just give in and did it. It went from there. It bothers me a lot but i'm only posting this because i know talking about bad situations helps me overcome them.

Thanks for understanding guys.

It's fine not to explain Slash, since either way we do understand the situation. The only thing I can think of that can help is try talking to her. But I have doubts that she will not desire to see you again..

What's grinding my gears is having the worst strategies with girls ever. I just make bad decisions in terms of asking the girl out and stuff like that.

I believe there is no strategy in asking out females. The only trick is to be yourself, and be confident. If she says no, accept it. If she says yes, go nuts. But if she does say no, just rub it off like dust is on your clothes. Try anything that is super fun.
 
I think the best thing she could have done was knee him in a sack and run. It would have been for self defence so it would have been all for a good cause.



As long as you don't sit there saying, "Will... (heavy breathing) you... (heavy breathing) go out... (heavy breathing)... With me... (faints)." As long as you don't do that you're fine. Or...

"Care... (creepy giggling) to give me... Heeheeheee, some lovin.... Heaaahahahah," that also won't get you far.
What I did was send a Valentines card and wrote a couple of paragraphs with my thoughts towards her ad then at the end I put "Will you be my girlfriend"

I don't know anything else yet because I put it in the Valentines card box on the last day before half term break
 
It's fine not to explain Slash, since either way we do understand the situation. The only thing I can think of that can help is try talking to her. But I have doubts that she will not desire to see you again..



I believe there is no strategy in asking out females. The only trick is to be yourself, and be confident. If she says no, accept it. If she says yes, go nuts. But if she does say no, just rub it off like dust is on your clothes. Try anything that is super fun.

...And then she ended up with someone else after I told her how I felt. I tried letting her go but I will never not have feelings for her.
 
Not to mention I've lost quite a few people close to me in recent months on top of it all.

I'll explain, as much as I don't want to, it'll probably help. Me and him grew up together and it ended up in a heated feud between who liked her more. Well she ended up over at his house and he kept talking to her etc (shes told me straight up she isn't like this and didn't want to) and eventually she just give in and did it. It went from there. It bothers me a lot but I'm only posting this because I know talking about bad situations helps me overcome them.

Thanks for understanding guys.

Dude.. this is the fifth response to your post I've typed. I identify with every aspect of your situation, albeit not in the same scenario and timescale... and I'd like to give you the full weight of my experience... but <much deleteing later> You've never told her how you feel about her have you?

edit: it took me so long to express this, I've been tree'd I think

edit 2: sometimes you are beaten by a scumbag mother ****** toss** *anker t*** .. but this.. is life. move on.
 
Dude.. this is the fifth response to your post I've typed. I identify with every aspect of your situation, albeit not in the same scenario and timescale... and I'd like to give you the full weight of my experience... but <much deleteing later> You've never told her how you feel about her have you?

edit: it took me so long to express this, I've been tree'd I think

I told her exactly how I felt and got blown off pretty much.
 
...And then she ended up with someone else after I told her how I felt. I tried letting her go but I will never not have feelings for her.

If she is happy with this person and could care less about you, it would be of no use if you attempt to have feelings for her any further.
 
If she is happy with this person and could care less about you, it would be of no use if you attempt to have feelings for her any further.

Oh we are still friends and all but never will go that far. I'ved tried to let go and can't. Believe me I know a lot of you have been through this and will tell me I will be able to.
 
Oh we are still friends and all but never will go that far. I'ved tried to let go and can't. Believe me I know a lot of you have been through this and will tell me I will be able to.

You will let go of it soon enough. Just keep saying that you'll find someone better, or better things in life, such things like that.
 
Leading the last few laps in a racing series race and then getting punted off track by the guy in 2nd, and then a caution flag not being called.
 
Ugh, the reverse grid in a Suzuki Swift championship race and making my way up from second last but this guy, with all credit was good at defending, had inherited the pole after finishing last and couldn't get around him and he wrecked my race as I was squeezed into the wall alongside him and went down to 5th, worse being that I'm now 3rd place in the championship 10 points down into the final round, luckily it's at Nurburgring GP/D, a track I haul ass at, there's hope for this championship still.:mischievous:
 
I have to learn and memorize three songs on drums by (next) Friday because my friends band drummer just quit and they have a show. Two songs are the bands originals and I can't listen to them!!!

So mad!!!
 
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Finally getting around to installing LittleBigPlanet only to find out it needs to install 11 updates.

Is that the first one or the second? I have the first one which I got with my PS3 and I thought it was awesome! :sly: I haven't played it in ages though. I could never work the level editor, but it would be really cool if you spent some time and got down to it.

And once again, attention-seekers really grind my gears. Seriously. :banghead:
 
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The first one, haven't touched it in ever and since I don't feel like playing a shooter I decided to pick it up again.

I got Quantum of Solace free with my PS3, haven't even played it. :lol: I watched my bro have a shot once and I could never be bothered.
 
You will let go of it soon enough. Just keep saying that you'll find someone better, or better things in life, such things like that.

IDK, I'm a wreck right now. Just left a school event and she was all over him sucking face. I keep telling myself its over but I just can't let her go...I just want her to be happy I guess.
 
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I feel like I'm good enough or something. I never felt so strongly for some one for so long and now I feel like a piece of dog ****. I literally feel like my world collapsed and I'm being crushed. And she beats me up and thinks its funny.
 
IDK, I'm a wreck right now. Just left a school event and she was all over him sucking face. I keep telling myself its over but I just can't let her go...I just want her to be happy I guess.

All over whose face?
 
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