2) Sorry for being rude, I was probably grumpy or in a bad mood or something.
Admittedly, I wasn't in a very good mood even before I read your post, and I went off, too. So I will also apologize.

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4) I would race IRL, but I don't think my 102 hp car would compete well nor do we even have a track within an hour's drive
Racing in RL may be a lot more accessable than you think. Watching racing on TV leaves you with the impression that nobody short of rich boys or super talented pros can participate. But, in reality, racing spans all the way down to where a normal joe with a regular 102hp grocery getter can go out and compete. It's just that only the big time stuff is televised.
Heck, I've watched an old grandma in her minivan who still had a load of groceries in the back staging on the drag strip. And not only that, but she was kicking butt because it's bracket racing! (The car in the other lane was not released until she was already half way down the track)
My point is... you don't have to be rich and famous or anything. Look up autocrossing and/or drag racing in your area. They do have race classes that you and your car fit into. And they only cost like $20-40 per event. The only thing you need besides your normal car is a helmet and sun screen.

(And actually, for a 102hp car, the drags won't even require a helmet. But autocross will)
Clearly, you have a good understanding of car physics. And I'm sure you're a good driver already. So you really aught to go out and try it for real.

The small time events happen all over the place and quite often... not just at permanent tracks. Autocrosses, for instance, are usually temporary courses set up on (very) large parking lots or air ports. Heck, one of the events I ran at was actually on a large peer (and one of the cars biffed it so badly that he nearly went over the edge and into the ocean!).
I'm sure you can find events within a reasonable driving range. You just gotta look into it. There's a lot of RL racing resources on the web.
- Skant