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Originally posted by Red Eye Racer
THINK, PEOPLE, THINK!
Now let's be reasonable, RER.
Originally posted by Red Eye Racer
THINK, PEOPLE, THINK!
Originally posted by milefile
I'm curious which .1% didn't call it taboo.
Remove the words 'opposite sex', and that's pretty much where I'm coming from as well, as I believe I've also made clear.Originally posted by Pako
In short, the only sexual relationship that IMO is a healthy and nuturing relationship is one of compromsie, trust, patience, love, understanding, life long commentment, opposite sex, and from different family origins. That pretty much sums up where I'm coming from, and I think I stated that before.
It is absolutely 100% as relevant as you r question about homosexual incest. Unless I'm missing something? If one is relevant then the other is. My example was picked in order to remove the stigma of genetically subnormal offspring from the question. If you see homosexual incest as no different than 'normal' homosexuality... I must be missing something. Because to me the difference is so huge as to be an entirely different question.This does not make incest acceptable just because reproduction is hindered, but I fail to see the relevance.
You need to think in larger trends. I don't literally mean that the people would never see others; but that in general each clan would tend to stay inwardly focused and isolationist. This is bad for society in general.I think I understand what your saying about social starvation within a closed family group, but what couples are only limited to their own pair, without social stimulas from the outside?
No, I must not have explained myself clearly. The physical and 'psychological damage' I was referring to was concerning drug addiction, which would occur even to a lone drug user on a desert island. To me, homosexuality has no inherent ability to cause physical or psychological damage to those who practice it. It is only the repression of society that causes this damage.With regards to society's 'taboo' causing psycological damage on the incest couple....., we're kinda hitting the same cord with homosexual couples, except society is more accepting of them now then in the recent past. If it was socially acceptable, with no psycological damage then it would be 'a good thing to do'?
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So homosexuallity is ok because it is more socially acceptable thus not causing psycological harm, and because they are social diverse in nature coming from different families, while the incest couple is not accepted and screwtenized because of it, and thus making it 'wrong' because of societies pressure causing psycological damage. That is a summary of what you are saying, yes?
Originally posted by infallible
I don't know if this has already been said or not. Sorry but I don't posses the patient nor do I have the time to read through the 30'some pages, but I voted that homosexuality is a slap to God/Nature.
I say that because, in Catholicism (Cathlic Belief/Religion) there are 7 deadly sins. One being lust. When a fag decides he wants to hump other fags, it is for pure lust. It IS a sin. To devote an entire lifestyle to sin.... I have very little patience for gay people, and even lesser patience for religious gay people, because of that soul idea.
Homosexuality is a direct slap against nature because of homo love. A butt-hole, is for ****. A vagina, is for dick. Plain and simple. Please excuse my crudeness but....I think some people really don't understand that. (Homos)
I wanted to vote also for "A problem that needs to be fixed". Because this is a serious problem. More and more people are becoming comfortable around and think it is okay to associate with homos. For that matter, some people don't think it is wrong, they feel it's just an alternative lifestyle. They are damning themselves.
anyway that's my 2 cents
Originally posted by Klostrophobic
I'm quite certain you've been brainwashed by your church. I could be wrong though.
Originally posted by neon_duke
Remove the words 'opposite sex', and that's pretty much where I'm coming from as well, as I believe I've also made clear.
It is absolutely 100% as relevant as you r question about homosexual incest. Unless I'm missing something? If one is relevant then the other is. My example was picked in order to remove the stigma of genetically subnormal offspring from the question. If you see homosexual incest as no different than 'normal' homosexuality... I must be missing something. Because to me the difference is so huge as to be an entirely different question.
You need to think in larger trends. I don't literally mean that the people would never see others; but that in general each clan would tend to stay inwardly focused and isolationist. This is bad for society in general.
I was commenting on this, "In addition, there are psychological/social reasons why insest is bad for the family unit. As I said earlier, incest prevents the family from becoming integrated into the local society. If the unattached young adults are staying within the family, there is no interaction and no social diversity within the given larger group. So the argument against incest has a physical and social reason for the taboo, regardless of the gender-preference issue. " statement. And yes, it is the repression of society that causes psycological damage as well as the questionable acts of their lifestyle and the moral delima that they put themselves in.No, I must not have explained myself clearly. The physical and 'psychological damage' I was referring to was concerning drug addiction, which would occur even to a lone drug user on a desert island. To me, homosexuality has no inherent ability to cause physical or psychological damage to those who practice it. It is only the repression of society that causes this damage.
How can you say it is totally different? I can see where the physical adnomallities can cause an effect, but as some cultures have proven, they handled the situation to the best of their ability. I am not condoning it, just sharing some sociallogical facts of past cultures. In regards to this 'taboo' that speak of, it is mearly the social guideline for what the current politically correct definition of what a sexual relationship can and can't be within a given society. The fact that this example couple grew up together should have no baring as seen in heteralsexual relations, if they grew up apart from one another should have no baring. The only common tie is at least one of the biological parents, and that is the only difference. Tom and Jane are seperated at birth. Each child was adopted by different parents. In their adult years they cross paths and fall in love with one another. Your saying that an alternate lifestlye is ok but with limits and restrictions. What these people do in private should be supressed with athority exersized by our society?The issue of incest is totally different and I believe I have shown why there are taboos against it for both physical reasons (which hold true for heterosexual incest) and social/psychological reasons (which hold true for both kinds of incest). Those issues are reason enough for incest to be taboo, regardless of society's acceptance or non-acceptance.
As you can see the only difference is one of the biological parents, and that is the only difference that I can see.Extra-family homosexuality shares none of those same issues and so I still fail to understand how it can be lumped with incest.
Originally posted by rjensen11
Are you referring to the Catholic Church as a whole? Or his specific church he goes to? Because if you are refurring to the Catholic Church as a whole, you'll be making a statement you'll soon regret as soon as more Catholics read it....
Originally posted by Klostrophobic
As a whole. I thought Christians were supposed to hate all gays and such. It is forbidden for some reason, no? I doubt I'm going to regret what I typed. Trust me.
Anyway, you're all gay.
HEY! I have a girlfriend!Originally posted by Klostrophobic
There must be plenty of close-minded gays. At least 5 in this thread, maybe.
Originally posted by M5Power
HEY! I have a girlfriend!
Originally posted by Klostrophobic
I didn't say you.
Originally posted by Klostrophobic
Sure, sure, make fun of the kid with the name his sister should have.
Originally posted by Klostrophobic
make fun of the kid with the name his sister should have.
Originally posted by neon_duke
No, actually, they're not open-minded enough to be gay.
And Pako, I'll have to ruminate on it a little. Somehow I'm not getting across to you what I mean. Sorry, bud.
It seems that the morallity line is moved and influenced given the pressures of society and what seems to be politically correct if there is no other influences at work. If enough people practicing incest came out of the closet, rallied for rights, and faught hard for acceptance....the line of morality would move again on a macro level.
Just re-reading a little of this thread and I noticed that it was left off in the middle of an argument (5 years back).
This confuses me a bit. Admittedly I haven't read the whole thread, so if I'm retreading, just tell me and I'll go re-read. But why do you (did you) think that incest would be viewed similarly to homosexuality from a social/moral perspective? Incest causes real physical and mental problems with offspring. In my mind, that means it'll never be socially acceptable. Homosexuality on the otherhand harms nobody. Even if you think it harms the people involved, they're doing it consensually, and still not harming anyone else - meaning that it's none of our business. That's why it's becoming socially acceptable.
https://www.gtplanet.net/forum/showpost.php?p=452183&postcount=215
Seems there is a lot of background info leading up to, and following that quote.
Maybe there was a reason it was left alone for 5 years.
do you see animals being queerish? I've never seen a queer animal, and I'll be damned if I ever do.