The Homosexuality Discussion Thread

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I think homosexuality is:

  • a problem that needs to be cured.

    Votes: 88 6.0%
  • a sin against God/Nature.

    Votes: 145 9.8%
  • OK as long as they don't talk about it.

    Votes: 62 4.2%
  • OK for anybody.

    Votes: 416 28.2%
  • nobody's business but the people involved.

    Votes: 765 51.8%

  • Total voters
    1,476
Originally posted by milefile
I'm curious which .1% didn't call it taboo.:confused:

Emperor families, monarch families, etc. Maybe they thought it was a taboo, but they still did it to 'keep the kingdom in the family'

Basically, when France, Spain, and the HRE all were one family(Were they all by one family at one time? I know the Habsburgs ruled France and Spain, but was there ever a Habsburg emperor? I'm too lazy to check my Euro book), they married each other, and they also married the rulers of England, Russia, and few other countries for many generations. So, basically, that whole upper circle is a kind of incest...
 
Originally posted by Pako
In short, the only sexual relationship that IMO is a healthy and nuturing relationship is one of compromsie, trust, patience, love, understanding, life long commentment, opposite sex, and from different family origins. That pretty much sums up where I'm coming from, and I think I stated that before.
Remove the words 'opposite sex', and that's pretty much where I'm coming from as well, as I believe I've also made clear.
This does not make incest acceptable just because reproduction is hindered, but I fail to see the relevance.
It is absolutely 100% as relevant as you r question about homosexual incest. Unless I'm missing something? If one is relevant then the other is. My example was picked in order to remove the stigma of genetically subnormal offspring from the question. If you see homosexual incest as no different than 'normal' homosexuality... I must be missing something. Because to me the difference is so huge as to be an entirely different question.
I think I understand what your saying about social starvation within a closed family group, but what couples are only limited to their own pair, without social stimulas from the outside?
You need to think in larger trends. I don't literally mean that the people would never see others; but that in general each clan would tend to stay inwardly focused and isolationist. This is bad for society in general.
With regards to society's 'taboo' causing psycological damage on the incest couple....., we're kinda hitting the same cord with homosexual couples, except society is more accepting of them now then in the recent past. If it was socially acceptable, with no psycological damage then it would be 'a good thing to do'?
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So homosexuallity is ok because it is more socially acceptable thus not causing psycological harm, and because they are social diverse in nature coming from different families, while the incest couple is not accepted and screwtenized because of it, and thus making it 'wrong' because of societies pressure causing psycological damage. That is a summary of what you are saying, yes?
No, I must not have explained myself clearly. The physical and 'psychological damage' I was referring to was concerning drug addiction, which would occur even to a lone drug user on a desert island. To me, homosexuality has no inherent ability to cause physical or psychological damage to those who practice it. It is only the repression of society that causes this damage.

The issue of incest is totally different and I believe I have shown why there are taboos against it for both physical reasons (which hold true for heterosexual incest) and social/psychological reasons (which hold true for both kinds of incest). Those issues are reason enough for incest to be taboo, regardless of society's acceptance or non-acceptance.

Extra-family homosexuality shares none of those same issues and so I still fail to understand how it can be lumped with incest.
 
Originally posted by infallible
I don't know if this has already been said or not. Sorry but I don't posses the patient nor do I have the time to read through the 30'some pages, but I voted that homosexuality is a slap to God/Nature.

I say that because, in Catholicism (Cathlic Belief/Religion) there are 7 deadly sins. One being lust. When a fag decides he wants to hump other fags, it is for pure lust. It IS a sin. To devote an entire lifestyle to sin.... I have very little patience for gay people, and even lesser patience for religious gay people, because of that soul idea.

Homosexuality is a direct slap against nature because of homo love. A butt-hole, is for ****. A vagina, is for dick. Plain and simple. Please excuse my crudeness but....I think some people really don't understand that. (Homos)

I wanted to vote also for "A problem that needs to be fixed". Because this is a serious problem. More and more people are becoming comfortable around and think it is okay to associate with homos. For that matter, some people don't think it is wrong, they feel it's just an alternative lifestyle. They are damning themselves.

anyway that's my 2 cents

Whoa, you threw more slanders than the post did that started this thread. You're going to get bashed and yelled at pretty good, I've got to see this!

Oh, and your paragraph about the human anatomy, um, that was unneccessary. Really unneccessary, just another thing to see you get yelled at....

Originally posted by Klostrophobic
I'm quite certain you've been brainwashed by your church. I could be wrong though.

Are you referring to the Catholic Church as a whole? Or his specific church he goes to? Because if you are refurring to the Catholic Church as a whole, you'll be making a statement you'll soon regret as soon as more Catholics read it....
 
Originally posted by neon_duke
Remove the words 'opposite sex', and that's pretty much where I'm coming from as well, as I believe I've also made clear.

It is absolutely 100% as relevant as you r question about homosexual incest. Unless I'm missing something? If one is relevant then the other is. My example was picked in order to remove the stigma of genetically subnormal offspring from the question. If you see homosexual incest as no different than 'normal' homosexuality... I must be missing something. Because to me the difference is so huge as to be an entirely different question.

The reason I say that it has no revelance is because we have both constrained the example of incest being bad where offspring are the result of incest for physical reasons. This is a point that we both agree on. We both think that incest is bad regardless of the circumstances.

You need to think in larger trends. I don't literally mean that the people would never see others; but that in general each clan would tend to stay inwardly focused and isolationist. This is bad for society in general.

Do you think that incest only occurs in the back woods of Montana? ;) When you speak of 'clans' I think of moon shine and shotguns with straw hanging out of their mouths. As far as being inwardly focused and isolated, do you mean with their social activities? If homo or heteral sexual couples stay inwardly focused and isolated, is that grounds to be concerned?

No, I must not have explained myself clearly. The physical and 'psychological damage' I was referring to was concerning drug addiction, which would occur even to a lone drug user on a desert island. To me, homosexuality has no inherent ability to cause physical or psychological damage to those who practice it. It is only the repression of society that causes this damage.
I was commenting on this, "In addition, there are psychological/social reasons why insest is bad for the family unit. As I said earlier, incest prevents the family from becoming integrated into the local society. If the unattached young adults are staying within the family, there is no interaction and no social diversity within the given larger group. So the argument against incest has a physical and social reason for the taboo, regardless of the gender-preference issue. " statement. And yes, it is the repression of society that causes psycological damage as well as the questionable acts of their lifestyle and the moral delima that they put themselves in.
The issue of incest is totally different and I believe I have shown why there are taboos against it for both physical reasons (which hold true for heterosexual incest) and social/psychological reasons (which hold true for both kinds of incest). Those issues are reason enough for incest to be taboo, regardless of society's acceptance or non-acceptance.
How can you say it is totally different? I can see where the physical adnomallities can cause an effect, but as some cultures have proven, they handled the situation to the best of their ability. I am not condoning it, just sharing some sociallogical facts of past cultures. In regards to this 'taboo' that speak of, it is mearly the social guideline for what the current politically correct definition of what a sexual relationship can and can't be within a given society. The fact that this example couple grew up together should have no baring as seen in heteralsexual relations, if they grew up apart from one another should have no baring. The only common tie is at least one of the biological parents, and that is the only difference. Tom and Jane are seperated at birth. Each child was adopted by different parents. In their adult years they cross paths and fall in love with one another. Your saying that an alternate lifestlye is ok but with limits and restrictions. What these people do in private should be supressed with athority exersized by our society?
Extra-family homosexuality shares none of those same issues and so I still fail to understand how it can be lumped with incest.
As you can see the only difference is one of the biological parents, and that is the only difference that I can see.

Care to explain further?

~Cheers~
 
Originally posted by rjensen11
Are you referring to the Catholic Church as a whole? Or his specific church he goes to? Because if you are refurring to the Catholic Church as a whole, you'll be making a statement you'll soon regret as soon as more Catholics read it....

As a whole. I thought Christians were supposed to hate all gays and such. It is forbidden for some reason, no? I doubt I'm going to regret what I typed. Trust me.

Anyway, you're all gay.
 
No, actually, they're not open-minded enough to be gay.

And Pako, I'll have to ruminate on it a little. Somehow I'm not getting across to you what I mean. Sorry, bud.
 
Originally posted by Klostrophobic
As a whole. I thought Christians were supposed to hate all gays and such. It is forbidden for some reason, no? I doubt I'm going to regret what I typed. Trust me.

Anyway, you're all gay.

Klos, you have out done yourself on the level of absurdity of the above statement.

The message of Christ is one of love. His love for us, and his obedience to his father (GOD) is why he willingly went thru the torment of the cross for us.
As far as homosexuality being "forbidden for some reason"...
Please borrow a bible. See Leviticus the 18th chapter, and it will outline a variety of sexual inpropriety and the "consequences".
 
You don't have to be open-minded. You're just gay. I don't think open-mindedness has much to do with it. You're probably born gay, and don't choose to become gay when you see some guy with a nice package walking down the street. There must be plenty of close-minded gays. At least 5 in this thread, maybe.

Contrary to what I said earlier, I wouldn't want to be gay, but I can handle gay people. Except Christopher Lowell.
 
I can't outdo myslef with absurdity, trust me. I can say something totally more absurd than that.

"18:22 You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination."

So basically, being gay is a sin. But I don't see why. Maybe I just need a good explaining as to why it is detestable or abominable.

Feh, I guess I shouldn't care what anyone thinks of gays.
 
Originally posted by Klostrophobic
make fun of the kid with the name his sister should have.

I will, I swear.

Okay, I have to go watch The River, some crappy twenty-year-old Mel Gibson movie about farming. I can't wait.
 
Sounds delectable. Just like Mel Gibson's full head of back hair.

How many times do you think he's had his hair retransplanted? There probably a little pubic hair up on his head. The head on his upper body, that is.
 
Hey, how am I close minded? Why do you feel I don't think for myself??


Red Eye, sorry bud but that guess had absolutely no truth to it, other then the fact that I do have a mom and a dad. Of course, those descriptions of them sure missed the bowl. ;)
 
Originally posted by neon_duke
No, actually, they're not open-minded enough to be gay.

And Pako, I'll have to ruminate on it a little. Somehow I'm not getting across to you what I mean. Sorry, bud.

Please, take your time to ruminate to illuminate. Sorry, had to say it, don't know why, just had to. And if not, that's fine to....you don't owe me an explanation for anything, but if you feel so compelled to do so, than by all means, please do so.
 
As per Duke's request, I have something to add, thus I am putting it here.

rjensen11 is damned because goats, as you may know, sometimes turn up a homosexual specimen, as well as dogs, but it is very rare, as humans are developed enough to recognize any of these conditions within themselves. Gay people are more affected by AIDS by normal sexual practices, and also may contract other STDs by means of it, which will not be discussed here. I honestly think that religion may be to blame for the anti-gay movement, as church-goers/religious types seem to be the only people in this modern society that repent it. Fact is, if it happens without chemicals/man-made causes, it is natural, if rarer than straight offspring.
 
Just re-reading a little of this thread and I noticed that it was left off in the middle of an argument (5 years back).

It seems that the morallity line is moved and influenced given the pressures of society and what seems to be politically correct if there is no other influences at work. If enough people practicing incest came out of the closet, rallied for rights, and faught hard for acceptance....the line of morality would move again on a macro level.


This confuses me a bit. Admittedly I haven't read the whole thread, so if I'm retreading, just tell me and I'll go re-read. But why do you (did you) think that incest would be viewed similarly to homosexuality from a social/moral perspective? Incest causes real physical and mental problems with offspring. In my mind, that means it'll never be socially acceptable. Homosexuality on the otherhand harms nobody. Even if you think it harms the people involved, they're doing it consensually, and still not harming anyone else - meaning that it's none of our business. That's why it's becoming socially acceptable.
 
Is there anything politically incorrect about calling a gay man's partner a boyfriend? I've always wondered that, because they're always introduced as their "partner", whereas my girlfriend introduces me as her "boyfriend"&#8212;which is essentially the same, is it not?
 
Just re-reading a little of this thread and I noticed that it was left off in the middle of an argument (5 years back).




This confuses me a bit. Admittedly I haven't read the whole thread, so if I'm retreading, just tell me and I'll go re-read. But why do you (did you) think that incest would be viewed similarly to homosexuality from a social/moral perspective? Incest causes real physical and mental problems with offspring. In my mind, that means it'll never be socially acceptable. Homosexuality on the otherhand harms nobody. Even if you think it harms the people involved, they're doing it consensually, and still not harming anyone else - meaning that it's none of our business. That's why it's becoming socially acceptable.

https://www.gtplanet.net/forum/showpost.php?p=452183&postcount=215

Seems there is a lot of background info leading up to, and following that quote.

Maybe there was a reason it was left alone for 5 years. :)
 
https://www.gtplanet.net/forum/showpost.php?p=452183&postcount=215

Seems there is a lot of background info leading up to, and following that quote.

Maybe there was a reason it was left alone for 5 years. :)

I read that post before responding earlier. I still don't understand. I'm guessing that the reason it was left alone was because the two of you got tired of talking about it. I'm sure 5 years is enough time to rest. ;)
 
do you see animals being queerish? I've never seen a queer animal, and I'll be damned if I ever do.

Although that was posted sometime ago, I just feel I have to point out this Wikipedia page.
 
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