Goodness me this seller is being such a blockhead.
I asked him how much it was to ship 4 cars. His response:
"$10.99. THANKS"
I asked him if he would allow me to save on shipping if he would ship my items out-of-packaging. His response:
"We agreed on $10.99 THANKS"
First off I didn't say anywhere that I agreed, and following up to that, I didn't get my answer so I made a few points about how shipping smaller = lower shipping costs, just to point out the obvious in case it wasn't obvious to them (can't assume common sense these days). I then asked him one more time if I could save on shipping. His response:
"Sir, the shipping price includes, postage , handling, insurance, filling out a custom form and waiting on line at the post office ect..."
Oh my god, standing in line and writing on a piece of paper is SO MUCH WORK! (faints) Like many sellers, they only respond to the first section of a message and ignore everything else. So I asked him once more if he would ship the items loose. I did not mention about saving on shipping this time. His response:
"no Thanks"
98% of sellers I've bought from won't turn down such a simple request so I asked why out of curiousity. His response:
"If you suddenly did not want it, how am I supposed to sell it afterwards? If you didn't want it, I can easily cancel the purchase."
Ohhhhh so that's what he was worried about this whole time? That I would suddenly walk out? -_-
So I assured him that I wouldn't be because I already gave him money which should be a clear sign I want the items. I only want the items free of their packaging. That's all I'm asking for now. His response:
"Fine. I'll ship it out on the 13th."
"Fine"? Should simple choice of words telegraphs your emotions too easily. As a seller, you shouldn't even be getting worked up, especially in text-based communication. I don't even know why he had to get worked up for. He could've handled the situation more easily with the first response if he had said with something like:
"I believe we agreed on $10.99 for shipping. If you want me to ship the items loose, I can do that, but I'm afraid there won't be any room to save money. Are you okay with that?"
There was no need to tell me all the "trouble" he has to go through standing in a line filling out a form, because that's none of my business and his problem for being an eBay seller. There was no need to jump to the assumption that I'm a non-payer. All he had to do was work with me or any buyer to one solid mutual agreement.