I think I'm repeating myself, but it's the starting point, from which everything else divides from. Think of the zygote as the cake and the sperm and egg as ingredients. If you had exactly the same ingredients and created an identical cake (twins) you'd then have 2 lives.
I think you're not really understanding what I'm asking. You're saying it's "a human". My question is what, meaningfully, does that mean exactly? Because a single cell with human DNA does not strike me as fundamentally "a human". I get that if it is cultivated long enough in the right environment, and if it keeps developing, you might be able to track that starting cell (assuming it doesn't die, which probably it does) to a specific cell in a human some day. But why would you call that "a human". To me, it can only meaningfully be called "a cell", or a human zygote, or a human embryo. Does that cell become a baby? No. It becomes two cells (if things go right). Does it resemble a baby? No. Does it have any of the features or characteristics of a baby? Basically just one, DNA. But this is not meaningful because DNA can be shared with lots of other cells as well.
So what's the significance of this cell? Why are we calling this "a human"?
It is not the case that everything else divides from this starting point. When you have a 4-cell embryo, at a minimum, 1 of those cells did not divide from the first cell. It divided from a second cell. That first cell might divide many times along the way, but the cells it creates represent a very small percentage of an eventual baby. If you could identify the cell prior to spit and continue to identify a new cell and the original cell following the split (I don't know if this can be done but I'm guessing it can), then by the time you have an 8-cell embryo, half of the cells did not split from the original cell.
Start: Cell A
Split 1: Cell A, Cell B (from A)
Split 2: Cell A, Cell B( from A), Cell C (from A), Cell D (from B).
Split 3: Cell A, Cell B( from A,), Cell C( from A), Cell D (from B), Cell E (from D), Cell F (from C), Cell G (from B), Cell H (from A).
If you cannot identify the original cell and the new cell, you get this.
Start: Cell A
Split 1: Cell B (from A), Cell C (from A)
Split 2: Cell D (from B), Cell E (from B), Cell F (from C), Cell G (from C)
In this case, by the second split none of the cells come from the original cell.
Here's what (I'm fairly certain) you don't have.
Start: Cell A
Split 1: Cell A (from A), Cell A (from A)
Split 2: Cell A, Cell A, Cell A, Cell A
They're not each the same cell.
I can't really think of any other point to say - that is the beginning of that human's life.
If it stops dividing at the second split, do you still say that? Where is the human? Where was the "life"? Why are we calling it this? It is the beginning and end of a human cell.
True, but what about the human? Should that meet ethical approval in your opinion?
I might be more inclined to really think hard about and answer this question if you gave me a reason. So far in this discussion I'm not sure why my opinion on whether human fetuses and rats should be allowed to experience pain during experimentation is really important.
You can do that with even more developed embryos too. I think it's probably religion's influence for the reaction (is the more appropriate term sympathy/compassion??).
It entirely has to do with pretending that the cell is something that is worthy of sympathy/compassion, and not simply a cell or two.
It's going to be interesting when the next milestone of neonatal medicine is breached and partial ectogenesis becomes a thing. If someone delivers at 21 weeks, and whatever is delivered is transferred to the NICU attached to a machine, what should be allowed to be done with it? A few weeks later in its gestation (e.g. 24 weeks), should the parent be allowed to terminate it if they wish (the answer I got on Twitter when I asked this surprised me)?
Strictly morally speaking? Yes. Pragmatically? No.