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I don't want or need it.
Just cause people go through hiccups in life doesn't mean they need government assistance. Situations like mine if I took assistance, are an abuse of the system IMO. Just like you suggested I could get mental health assistance cause of my situation, which I don't need.
On a positive note, I'm moving back to my old neighborhood at the end of the month. A high school friend is going to rent me his extra bedroom.
Some of us know how to get by without government help. I'm not saying if someone else got threw into my situation they would not need help. I'm saying I didn't/don't. Again, call it pride,which you called irrelevant. I disagree, a persons pride or lack of, affects their decisions.
That is the incorrect mentality where a lot of people with mental health, money or other problems also struggle with. People refusing help out of pride or other factors. There is no shame in asking for help. The first phase is to acknowledge you have a problem.
You have paid taxes most of your working life. Receiving help in return has nothing to do with pride. I really hope you will overcome these recent setbacks.