How I drive is in my sig, I always use cockpit view, even with standard cars, doing time trial ( GTA, Seasonal ), races, everything. I don't have problems with cockpit view, I like it, while I dislike chase and bumper view, feels weird.
I always drive clean, winning is not the most important thing, having great time is. I never use ABS and any other aids since day one playing GT5, basically any computer assist that makes driving the car easier is a no no for me. I'll do whatever I can to get the most realistic and challenging driving.
What really bothers me is the general attitude towards fellow players who preferred no to use any aids. Those who uses aids always end up being defensive, then calling them who don't use aids as elitists. What is the real reason behind this negative perception ? Do those who uses aids feel less than who don't ? No, it's just the way you play, want more challenge for yourself, disable all aids. Want to get help from the game, use them, but don't feel bad or worse than those who don't use aids. I don't mind others being faster due to using ABS, Active Steering or what not, I know the limit of my driving without using them, that's more than enough, so why should those who uses aids feel the need to defend why they use them.
Anyway, the adjust of correct FOV perfectly matching car interiors with your hardware wheel, now that is realistic. But we have no free FOV adjust in GT5, so...
Actually, you can change the FOV in GT5, under display options, enable multi monitor, there's an option to adjust FOV, the lower the number, the closer it will be. You can still uses wide, zoom, extra zoom settings under pause menu, these will be affected by the FOV value.