You are factually wrong about both these people which makes the rest of your rant irrelevant.
oh really am I
what's this then? also the countless amount of stuff out there about this server allowing minors despite it supposedly being an 18+ server?
inb4 'muh right wing rhetoric'
your types only like evidence that suits your bill. when it goes against your worldview, you demand evidence via sourcing in the mainstream media (i.e. commercial, 'big' websites and newspaper articles) and from prominent profiles that match up exactly with your political ideology. ironically this is exactly the same thing that people on the far-right do when they dismiss any news that comes from anything not called Fox News, the Daily Mail or Tory MPs/etc.
if it doesn't match up by these ultra-specific requirements that will nearly never be met you end up throwing away the evidence on the basis it's 'unreliable'. or treating it 'better' because it came from someone from 'an oppressed minority', much the same way people on the far-right treat evidence from 'a majority' better than that from a minority.
it's all about making a personal judgment based on each side of the story you have, rather than chucking away any and all evidence because 'you don't like the source', and if things add up and generally point to a result, you make a conclusion. unfortunately, this art has been lost on people.
ultimately, you really do have to treat evidence from people who can be deemed 'problematic' as evidence, because that's how things work. often enough you can tell if they're talking dog**** though, especially IRL. I remember once I had a hunch on someone being a lying **** who... funny enough, turned out to be a lying **** - I knew they'd get into some **** for years, and when it happened I just thought 'lol called it', didn't go attacking anyone around them because it's not really my business though... anyway said person (who went by VoltiRoth/greenchile03/EspoElectro) stole $2000 worth of people's money for a Gofundme scam pretending to have been kicked out of their parents' home for 'transphobia' back in 2021 or so if I remember right.
what this does is **** up people who actually deserve the help and funds to get the hell out of abusive situations: my 2nd closest friend is trans and she is going through a lot of abuse right now. actual abuse, as in being beaten up by her parents, her estrogen tablets being taken away... basically not being allowed to actually live her life (despite being legally an adult) nor being even respected by her parents as their kid, which is beyond disgusting.
disagree with life choices all you like, but at the end of the day doing things like rejecting someone from working or going somewhere purely down to them holding 'problematic' views or being part of a minority (regardless of them voicing them openly or the said person actively going out of their way to be whatever to someone else about their views), or in cases like my friend, trying to sadistically use your own child as some kind of punching bag when they actually did did nothing personal to you, is just horrendous.
live and let live. society should form naturally, not forcibly, and evidently we will learn to respect one another as people.