Double Standards

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I want to start a discussion about double standards, generally; more specifically about stereotypes and biases and labels.

My sig links to three posts/threads. One is mine and I got called an ignorant, racist, idiot who makes people sick for it. The other two are others' and they, for some reason, seem to be acceptable. I might have a theory as to why, but I'll wait on that.

Discuss please.
 
So all you have to do is say you were trying to be funny and it's okay? I thought the disclaimer "not to be taken seriously" (or something) was pretty funny in itself.

I'll paraphrase:
This is a black man and he steals cars.
Oooga booga where da white women at?

The fact that it makes people laugh, the fact that people think it's funny doesn't make it okay. If anything it makes it worse because you're having a laugh at the expense of a race's dignity.

I could almost understand the purpose of racism to preserve jobs or to protect one's self from some perceived fear. But just for laughs? That just shows how it is totally woven into white culture to feel superior. The darker races are a good source of cheap labor, prison stuffing, and jokes.
 
My guess is that nobody wants to take this on because it proves that if you thought those jokes were funny you are a racist according to the common usage of the term.

And that leaves us with two possibilities. Either many, many people are racist, including whoever posted those threads, or, the term "racist" is worthless, a stupid name people throw around like "ass-hole" or "dip-****" or something. Which would be too bad.
 
Another reason why we don't bother screaming 'racist' at these is because the people who posted them cannot be held accountable for them, since they didn't actually dream up the idea. And so if you laugh, you're just as guilty of racism as the thread starter.
 
Originally posted by milefile
My guess is that nobody wants to take this on because it proves that if you thought those jokes were funny you are a racist according to the common usage of the term.

So you mean that? /\
 
I look at all Arabs differently now. I now seem to think that everyone one of them I see is into some sort of shady illegal activity. Heh.
 
Originally posted by Concept
I now seem to think that everyone one of them I see is into some sort of shady illegal activity.


They're all involved in some type of illegal activity.
They're all terrorists too.
All.
 
Originally posted by M5Power
Are you just pushing my buttons? :odd:


Uh, yeah. I don't honestly belive that all Arabs are involved in some type of illegal activity, nor do I believe that they're all terrorists.
 
Mile, just an observation at why those two JOKES are okay, when your SERIOUS reply is not.

Because, those two jokes were in fact jokes, and they are funny because they pun off of stereo-types. Black's Asian's White women, and White men are all made fun of in the one comic strip. I laughed at that, and I am NOT racist to anyone of those ethnics. So your statement, "If you laughed you are racists" is not true.

You however, showed your blatant undeniable racism towards Arabs. You ARE racist because you said that ALL Arabs, (a race) should be considered first threat for airplane terrorism.

Saying that is like saying ALL Americans should be watched out for because they bomb buildings, (Timothy McVeigh) Maybe that's not the best example, but the point should still come across. Punk Rock said it good in his reply to your thread.

I don't know if i've helped or not, but that's my two cents
 
I think at some one point or another everyone is racist. When I first heard that the people responsible for 9/11 were of Arab decent(sp) I was suspicious of all of them. I have since started dealing with a costomer through work that I like a lot that is originally from Iran. He has a great buisness going and seems to treat his fellow employees with respect and they in turn treat him the same. (something my American employer doesn't always do.)
Anyway, there is always something that pushes our buttons and makes us see others differently at one time or another.
Now back to my hatred of Sadaam the palastine gov't , South Korean Gov't. and anyone else I can think of that's not American that doesn't like us.
 
Originally posted by infallible
Mile, just an observation at why those two JOKES are okay, when your SERIOUS reply is not.
What was serious about my reply? It was sarcasm. I used an Arab name to get accross a point in a sidways manner. A joke is the same thing. So you're saying if every body gets a laugh out of it it's okay. If it points out a potential danger, it's not.

Because, those two jokes were in fact jokes, and they are funny because they pun off of stereo-types. Black's Asian's White women, and White men are all made fun of in the one comic strip. I laughed at that, and I am NOT racist to anyone of those ethnics. So your statement, "If you laughed you are racists" is not true.
Black people steal cars. So if my car got stolen and I said "Damn blacks!" that would have to be okay to. It's the same stereotype. Again, whether it makes me laugh has little to do with anything.

This is a big thing people do... evaluate things based soley on if they like it or not, which is a superfluous variable. Your feelings, my feelings, do not matter.

You however, showed your blatant undeniable racism towards Arabs. You ARE racist because you said that ALL Arabs, (a race) should be considered first threat for air - plane terrorism.
Again, I used a known stereotype to convey a point. If you didn't know exactly what I was talking about you wouldn't have understood it to begin with. Sorry it didn't make you laugh. Because that would've made it okay.

Saying that is like saying ALL Americans should be watched out for because they bomb buildings, (Timothy McVeigh) Maybe that's not the best example, but the point should still come across.
You're right. It's a bad example. There is a Jihad against America as announced by Osama Bin Laden in his Fatwah. Have you read it? I have read parts but not the whole thing. It is all about Arab Muslims and Allah versus Americans and Jews. And I seriously doubt there is any anti-racisim disclaimer in the parts I missed.

Removing the Arab aspect to this whole mess is an attempt at making things easy for ourselves. It is a symptom of social laziness.

If I was standing at a bus stop next to an Arab, I would be curious about him. I would want to know how it feels for him to be in America now, after 9/11, and I might even ask him how it makes him feel that I, and many others, see Arabs differently now. The damage has been done and I didn't do it, Arabs did. And I believe he would be happy that someone asked him.

I hear all about how Pakistanis have to register with the INS now and many of them are running to Canada. I think it's so unfortunate for them to be inconvenienced by this; even having their lives ruined. And I disagree with plenty of what the so-called Department of Homeland Security is doing. But for me to deny that I associate Arab Muslims with terrorism after 9/11 is a stupid lie, for me and anyone. It serves no purpose but to make you look good to some ideal who's origins nobody can quite pin down so we just pretend it is an a priori truth. In other words it's mental mastubation. A waste of good intentions.

Punk Rock said it good in his reply to your thread.
He said I was an ignorant, racist idiot. Funny, I don't feel like one. And if I was, rest assured, I wouldn't deny it. That would be immoral in my book. Honesty is an inevitable side effect of my morality and I don't do anything I'll have to lie about later.

I don't know if i've helped or not, but that's my two cents
You have. And I appreciate your taking the time to write a thought out post, even if it's lazy and force-fed with clouded, preconceived notions about the nature of stereotypes, hate, and difference.
 
Re: https://www.gtplanet.net/forum/t-18113.html

Sure we've had it up to here [lifts hand above head] with the phrase "diversity". If you live in a non-homogenous culture like the United States, then we've had our fill of it. Diversity is everywhere, but at what point does singling out differences mean avoidance rather than acceptance?

We are tought to accept differences in the workplace, which ultimately, is a bit of a paradox. In the corporate model with ironclad rules, little or no leeway on commands and management orders, failure to comply with mission statements and other nonsence is deemed unacceptable.

The notion of accepting diversity is one thing. People are different, even if they just live on a different side of the street. We grow up with different sets of values, and we either change or accept them, modify them as necessary, and then find fault with the way others do things, which runs counter to the notion of accepting diversity.

Many people are sick and tired of the PC phrase "diversity". Backlash from plans like affirmative action and racial profiling are enough to make people of all races and creeds sick and tired of catchphrases and double-talk. Enough becomes enough...and we get a joke like we see above.

It's not funny. It could have been humourous, but all the worst stereotypes and ignorance have been placed inside the image. It's funny if you're an American white male, but if you're anything else, it's in poor taste. It was poorly constrcuted in MS Paint and Word, but it's still a cobbled-together attempt at humor anyhow.

I's a joke on steroetypes that only a handful of people may have. But it's brought about by someone who couldn't play a joke on themselves first; it was far easier to attack others whom are different.
 
Mile, I don't know what was serious about your relpy. Honestly, I clicked your link and read your response and then punk rock's. Judging from what Punk Rock said I then infered that you were speaking in a serious manner. Because he was quite serious.

"I used an Arab name to get accross a point in a sidways manner. A joke is the same thing. " I don't think I'm understanding what you are saying here. :confused: I think you just said that a joke is a way to get across a point, in a sideways manner. If that's what you were trying to say, I will :odd: and firmly disagree with you.

Your car got stolen then you outburst with "Damn Blacks" would not be right, even if it is "stereotypical". (Which it is not) In a joke you make something funny by over exaggerating(sp).

By saying "Damn Blacks" you are saying that the only people that steal cars are blacks. Call it racism or ignorance, I don't care, it's wrong.
 
Originally posted by infallible
Mile, I don't know what was serious about your relpy. Honestly, I clicked your link and read your response and then punk rock's. Judging from what Punk Rock said I then infered that you were speaking in a serious manner. Because he was quite serious.

"I used an Arab name to get accross a point in a sidways manner. A joke is the same thing. " I don't think I'm understanding what you are saying here. :confused: I think you just said that a joke is a way to get across a point, in a sideways manner. If that's what you were trying to say, I will :odd: and firmly disagree with you.

Your car got stolen then you outburst with "Damn Blacks" would not be right, even if it is "stereotypical". (Which it is not) In a joke you make something funny by over exaggerating(sp).

By saying "Damn Blacks" you are saying that the only people that steal cars are blacks. Call it racism or ignorance, I don't care, it's wrong.

O.K.
 
It all harks back to the days of Irish Jokes and Polish Jokes, and Black jokes, ad nauseam.
It is NOT cool to make fun of anyone because of their ethnic background.
If I say "why is it in horror movies you never see any black people?"
Cause their the only ones that when the scary voice says "GET OUT", they listen and Haul A**.

Yeah, it's kinda funny, but it's a backhanded insult to all the folks of other ethnic groups that hang around to find the source of the "scary voice".

There will always be prejudice, walking hand in hand with ignorance. It will breed stereotypes and that will breed fear and contempt. Is that what we're really striving for? Pretty un-lofty huh?

If we must be prejudiced against a group of people, let's join together and agree that prejudiced people are usually the ones that SHOULD stay in the Amityville house, or go off looking for Freddy Kruger, or Jason, or Micheal Myers...
Maybe, just maybe they'll find them and in this one instance, We'll get lucky and, Stupid people won't breed.
 
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