So, it's pretty easy to get into personal attacks when talking about subjects like healthcare, religion, and all of the various sensitive topics that we discuss here in the opinions forum. I know it's hard to hold back from calling people insane, or acquiescing to the urge to dismiss people or arguments emotionally. I'd urge you to avoid doing that, not just because it'll keep you from getting in trouble with the moderators here, but also because it will help you actually take something away from this discussion. And I assume that you want to take something away from this, because otherwise why bother to be here in the first place?
Well, let's start with an example. I get a certain amount of service from my government, I pay approximately 10 times as much for that service as would be appropriate given my apportionment of the US government budget over the US adult population, and approximately 7 times as much for that service as would be appropriate given my apportionment over the US taxpaying population. That was last time I checked, it has gone up since. So I do know something about being charged extra for the same exact thing as someone else. Obviously that's not appropriate for the government to do, because human beings have a right to equal protection of the law, but it is an example.
I used to have a credit card for a particular department store. When I bought enough from that department store, they would give me benefits corresponding to reduced-cost services. So at that point, based on my history with that company, I was being charged less than others for the same service. Sometimes companies will offer discounts based on your patronage of other companies, such as if you're a AAA member, you might get discounts at hotels that do not belong to AAA, but do offer a discount to that group.
In the US, there is something called a
Senior Citizen Discount, which is age-based discriminatory pricing. Similarly, many companies offer discriminatory pricing for young children. You could argue that those are based on the fact that children of those ages will cost less in services. That's probably incorrect actually, but regardless, it does not apply to senior citizens.
In the US, a lot of bars have
Ladies' Night, which is gender-based discriminatory pricing.
There are also behavioral discounts, where customers are asked to do something, such as "wear a t-shirt with a star on it, get $5 off". Movie stars or other celebrities often get things for free, or at a deep discount as well.
There are, of course, other ways that the same service can cost different amounts of money just based on how you want to pay for that service. Sometimes there is an upcharge for paying with a credit card, or you may pay extra if you choose to borrow the money you want to use to pay for something. These are examples of "extra services" though, in a way, because the same, or another, company is providing you with the additional service of accepting credit cards or loaning money. So that's not really a good example, but I think it's important to keep in mind that there are many ways to pay extra for the same thing.
So let me ask you, do you think it would be appropriate for a Women's University to only offer tuition scholarships to women?
The bottom line here is that it is common, ubiquitous even, for the same services to cost different people different amounts of money. In many cases, due to personal attributes that they do not have control over.
In the US, doctors can refuse new patients.
Actually... doctors do have a right to deny you healthcare. To say anything else is to say that you have the ability to force them to offer you healthcare, which is immoral, you cannot compel someone to do something for you (don't confuse contractual obligations with this). You're confused about the nature of rights, and you're not alone. But your particular needs do not confer on you a right to demand that someone else provide you with those needs (that is slavery).
A degree of choice does not change the principle here.
You're not asking, you're advocating forcing. Specifically, you're advocating forcing someone to do a job that you have defined for them. This is immoral.
I understand that your country's particular system is different from what I am talking about. I'm talking about what human rights and morality. There will be many countries that choose to violate those.
I believe you're talking about the US in particular, rather than a general principle that applies to everyone. Which is fine, that just wasn't clear from this post.
What's your definition of tolerate? Because allowing someone to have a discriminatory policy legally, such as a senior citizen discount, does not mean that people have to like it, and it does not mean that customers cannot refuse to give their patronage to a company that offers such a discriminatory policy. If, by "tolerate", you mean why should discrimination be legal, the answer is because it would be a violation of human rights, and immoral, to render it illegal to discriminate.