Late to the party here (his thread) but I was, and still am, a huge Shift 2 fan. I have put in many hours (PS3) and still think it is one of the most immersive racing sims to date on the consoles.
With that said, I too have switched to the Xbox for my virtual racing. Forza 4 has lived up to the pre-release hype in my opinion. I wasn't too impressed after trying the demo but I seem to remember the same happening when I first picked up Shift 2. IMO, Forza 4 is the total package for car lovers. There is so much to do and not enough time to do it all. I am not saying it's the best at everything, no racing game is, but hits the nail on the head in most. It has something for almost everyone - car and track selection, very complete tuning functionality, a very capable livery editor (I "tried" to use Shift 2's

), Rivals/Leaderboards (Autolog!), great photomode, auction house, graphics and sound to the limits of the current generation consoles, and it doesn't crash (don't have to explain this one!).
With my new cross-platform wheel and pedals (ready for the next latest and greatest on PC, PS3, or Xbox) the feedback of the car/racing is fantastic.
Now that I have an Xbox, I do plan on re-purchasing Shift 2 as I always heard it was better on the Xbox. Also plan on F1 2010 on Xbox for same reason but no time for anything other than Forza at this point.
I am not partial to any platform - it's all about the software!
Note: One thing I don't miss is trying to compete with Steve182rs
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mmm I tried to find a store with a demo but nothing here. Steve lives in a bigger city and could not find one either. It is a lot of money to fork out on one game, then to find out you don't like the physics. If it is sterile like GT5 I will shoot myself
Similar in objective (driving/racing/car enthusiast sim), but I cannot play GT5. The menu system, sound, lack of visual damage, AI competition, lack of human competition comparison (AutoLog, Rival, Leaderboards), and focus on Japanese cars in GT5 just doesn't do it for me.
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10. Online. Wow. The best. Online damage, online heats, online teams, car clubs, private races, public races, 16 cars and DAMAGE. Also you can save online replays, and even watch the telemetry from any car in the race. Basically you can set up league races with ease. The biggest pro over S2? No collision issues, and no huge lag spikes. You can draft someone 2 feet in front of you.
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Forgot to even mention "Online"! Loved racing with you guys with Shift 2 but the collision detection was so bad it ruined the experience (and the crashing with some high PI cars and tracks). I have only raced a few times with Forza online (with Vaxxtx) but it was great to be able to race side-by-side or ride the bumper of the other competitors waiting for the best overtaking point. Can't even express how much more fun this provided.