It might be different over there, but probably not.
Well there aren't many left, but then they're 20 years old by now and Ford never sold many in the first place - the Mondeo came out around the same time, Ford sold
vastly more of them, and there are barely any of those left either.
But from what I remember at the time, and what I can reference right now with some of the mags I have lying about, things were fairly positive.
Autocar summary from 95: "Ford's American-built answer to the [Vauxhall] Calibra is more fun but less polished*. Sweeter, cheaper and more comfortable 16v a better buy than V6".
Car summary from 94: "For: Arresting looks, silken V6. Against: Sharply embarrassing name."
Used car test in a classic mag from 2014: "The dashboard design is clean and crisp, and an unexpected air of quality pervades. The gear change is smooth and precise, and the engine revs to a heady 7700rpm with a keen yowl...the car rides smoothly, yet is taut, nimble and transparently positive through corners."
Realistically, I'm more inclined to trust the opinions of those who a) tested them new or b) has recently tested a top-notch example, than the apocryphal tales of someone who heard from someone who knew someone who bought a knackered 20-year old example and thought it was a bit crap.
The Probe only really had two significant faults - it had a ridiculous name, and it had the misfortune to be launched about a year or two before the European coupe market exploded with umpteen talented rivals - Alfa GTV, E36 3-Series, Fiat Coupe, fifth-gen Prelude, sixth-gen Celica, 406 Coupe, Hyundai Coupe, revised versions of the Calibra and Rover Tomcat, Nissan 200SX, Merc CLK etc.
I do find it amusing how poorly you rate 90s Fords though. In contrast to the States, Ford's European arm produced some of the best cars it ever made in that decade - the revised Fiesta, the Ka, the Mondeo, the Puma, the Focus - it's telling that the only real disappointing one was the Cougar, and notably that wasn't developed in Europe...