No need to feel bad. The rules are the rules because they are the rules. I play by them and if I break them, unintentionally our not, then the consequences are what they are. Everyone knows going in, I just flubbed it this time. No big deal, I'll learn and move on. 👍
I'm sort of in a transition period at the moment. My standard up to this point has been DS3/AT. In the last few months (I think my first week doing this was 9?) I have gotten rid of TCS and now I am going back and forth with the DS3 and DFGT as well as trying to get used to MT, which is not as easy as it was in my head.
I'm doing everything I can to get faster so whether your advice works for me our not I'll give it a try. A lot of the guys here have helped (mostly indirectly) and that is the thing I like best about the WRS; people always willing to share advice or tunes our whatever to help everyone else get faster, which you don't find everywhere.