Rather poor year all things considered. So-so birthday in March, many friends rarely even acknowledged it. Decent raise in my last job in April that was quickly cut short by surgery on my lung, to this very day, I don't think I ever needed. Entered into a relationship afterwards that became nothing but a stressful, long-term relationship that ended in a break up after the summer.
It got better once I started my current job, but I quickly went into depression afterwards constantly thinking about the ex. & the people I had called friends, amongst figuring out to pay for thousands & thousands of dollars worth of medical bills. A very special ex co-worker picked me up & to this day, remains my saving grace and a close friend. Lately though, despite the perks of the new job showing, I've been on the edge of dropping back into depression as I realize the few people who came to help me months ago come back the first time around, have only reverted back to the same ways they were before.
Hopefully, New Years will end the year on a good note & will be spending 2013 looking out for myself & the people who've proven they have my best interests in mind, not the people who pretend & waste my time.
Seems that you had it pretty hard this year, and I sort of understand, I have been in a similar position.
I have been ... sick for quite some time now, it was a thing from 2011 but it really got bad in January, then a series of things started happening. For one I lost my girlfriend, well ... we kinda put an end to it on 2011 but I really screwed things up, she hated me for some time until we managed to sort things out recently(I honestly still feel bad about it, not really proud of what I did).
I lost my job by June, it was bound to happen anyway, I managed to save enough for tuition fees for 2012's second semester, moved back home to then realize that programming was not my thing, so I quitted (lost a lot of time, effort and money, it's a temporal quit while I organize a little bit my life). Unsurprisingly depression and stress got me really hard, which led to ... panic attacks(prime reason of why I dropped college this semester, and for next semester).
Is not that bad though, I got a new job, and this year I discovered ... a group of incredible people who are the most loyal, sympathetic, trustable, reliable and probably the nicest people on earth, I have no idea where I would be without their help, or without them in fact, and I'm really thankful for having people like them to support me, life can be hard sometimes, but it is easier to have people like that around you.
I have big hopes for 2013, for one I'm no longer that sick, and I got (what it seems to be) an stable job, I'm surrounded by really nice people and while I don't have any girlfriend I'm still constantly meeting new people, maybe someone special will show up some day(who knows). There are a bunch of goals I want to reach, and I'm pretty confident that next year the opportunities will arise, things will be better, I'm sure of it.