Well Jesus is just his son! So I obey the boss not his son.
I just try to be a good human being, approch my fellow humans with respect and tolerance.
I don't care about the dogmatism of religions. All religions are the same : basic guidelines for being a good human and living in a good community perverted by some people.
Try to be a good human beeing and that should grant you a place with your families if there is a heaven.
I for one belive in a greater being wether it is devine or extra terrestrial. It gives you something to believe in. I already lost some beloved friends and family members, and that simplistic believe let's me cope rather well with my loss.