@GBO Possum Me here and also my friends are from you-so-called "another part of Indonesia" and Im one of them. So according to you, that means i will bomb some places for fun, yes. [/s]
Lets flip a coin. My father's friend were working voluntarily on Kansas (I dont remember much the exact place). He found some people disturbed him due to the same unwelcomeness making him cant go out very often. Turns out they are from Westboro Baptist Church or something. Then he goes to California and found out most of people there are friendly. Does that means Kansas are unholy mess while California is a total safe heaven?
Its funny that you mentioned Lombok. I can name some places that indeed has a rather "uncomfortable" environments overall here, especially Aceh. But Lombok isnt one of them. There are some minority, but its kinda expected, just like any other places ever. Does that mean i will judge entire Christian in America based on Westboros? Maybe i lived on a capital here so we dont have a problem accepting others and the absolute worst happened from Moslems is basically equivalent of Westboros called Islamic front, which most people even from Moslems here disliked it. Or maybe i dont really care much about religion overall.
(Im also get sick of local jokes called foreigners only knows Bali and nothing else.)
Sad really. We arent some whacky hijinks who favourite hobby is to bomb people, stealing rights from woman, preaching extreme teachings, and whatever that is in some people (here) in mind when hearing moslems. Its generalizations at best. Say what you want about what Islam be like to yours, each people has their own faiths and opinions (or not, but you got the point). But if it suddenly becomes stereotyping people, then I just said its just pretty depressing at this point.
Terrorists like ISIS wants this. The try best to marginalize moslems in places so they desperate in acceptance, gone confused, and join ISIS as their own "safe haven". You think only moslems has these unwelcomeness.
How about we also flip the coin in Myanmar by Buddhists. And many other examples i might passed on.
Thing is, when narrowing down to broad groups as religion, political ideologies, nationalists, etc consists on many people with different people. Islam, Christian, Communists, Conservatives, Americans, Indians, Romanians, etc. Generalize one of them based on small groups or anecdote is generally quite close minded. Each individual or groups have their own good and bad traits. I know you may want to be fells safe. But there is definitely more strategic ways to sort it out than just rely on basic generalization.
This is probably my longest thoughts and rare from mine.