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That's all it takes for me to be considered racist?
No offence intended, i'm somewhat of a neurodivergent myself as someone diagnosed with dyslexia.How to wind up someone whos autistic in two easy steps.
1. Suggest everyone/the majority are 'on the spectrum'. It's not accurate or true, and the 20% is pretty much the hard cap for diagnosis, and that's for all ND diagnosis, not just ASD.
Autism spectrum disorder
One in 100 children in the UK have a diagnosis of autism spectrum disorder. We have raised concerns about the time it takes for diagnosis, as well as the support offered in England.www.bma.org.uk
2. Describe it as something we 'have'. I don't 'have' autism, I am autistic, in the same way, people don't 'have' blindness, they are blind.
Sabine gets it pretty straight on the discussion of Autism Spectrum Disorder as a different normal.
I suspect, and this is pure conjecture, that if we investigated a lot of mental disorders that we'd find that many of them present as a spectrum. Certainly not all of them. A condition like narcissitic personality disorder for example tends to present with just about every symptom being expressed. It's a disorder where the various symptoms complete the loop and feed and reinforce each other, so it doesn't work well if you're missing some of them. Missing some of them might just be the way out of that particular disorder. But there are other disorders, such as depression, which almost certainly exist in both degrees and expressions like Autism. I imagine we could call depression a Depression Spectrum Disorder with particular Types corresponding to the degree of independence a particular individual can achieve. I wouldn't be shocked to learn of Schizophrenia Spectrum Disorder or even Bi-Polar Spectrum Disorder. Though that last one might be ridiculous, I'm not an expert on the subject.
The point is that there are many mental conditions which can have different kinds of expression and require different levels of care ranging from independent to debilitating, just like Autism. Being able to function independently may still require active management of the condition.
As a personal example, one of my kids has hearing loss. It's easy to forget, she has bone conduction hearing aids, and she functions independently and largely successfully (except when she removes her aids and forgets to put them on). It would be easy to think of her situation as perfectly "normal". If everyone could interact with her with an understanding that without her aids they need to speak up, and aware of the basic physical requirements for managing her aids (like taking them off to put on a helmet or something), then her life would be hard to distinguish (especially without doing a comparative assessment) from any other living condition. But she does have a real impediment. And even if she is successful at managing it, she is managing it - and that is a key distinction. Taken in the extreme, her condition could be quite severe in terms of the management it requires. Luckily she has a more mild expression of hearing loss, but she is still managing her hearing loss.
Another year, another Home Secretary promoting racist assumptions about groomers despite her own government's report offering substantial evidence to the contrary. This one is losing support on her own side because of it, though:The only person complaining about political correctness in this article about last month's report disproving the link between ethnicity and grooming gangs is our right-wing Home Secretary who didn't want to release the report for some reason until those pesky liberals demanded it in their tens of thousands. Perhaps it was because most offenders weren't of South Asian origin after all?
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/...eview-race-religion-home-office-b1774161.html
Offense is subjective. Due to that subjectivity, there's unlikely to be a consensus when it comes to use of a particular word. Some people are offended by it such that, as seems to be the case above, they would see its use prohibited broadly. Others assert that any negative reaction to use of the word is wholly inappropriate. These are obviously extremes and the discord certainly isn't limited to these poles. I'm somewhere between the two poles in that, as I replied to that post, I'm not personally offended by use of the word but I recognize that others may be and that offense isn't necessarily inappropriate, even as it surely can be. Because offense is subjective and views on offense are so discordant, it stands to reason that which is deemed to be acceptable is also going to vary wildly.The N-Word Pass
This is not a statement about how bad the racist word is and the phrase "N-Word Pass", but the fact it exists completely.
If a white person says the word, it is career destroying. Kyle Larsen, Juri Vips and Nelson Piquet have all been vilified to using the word, regardless if context. As they are white, they did not have those privileges and therefore have been rightly called out for using it. Anybody familiar with YouTube in 2017 will be aware of the chaos that was caused when PewDiePie said the word on a live stream too.
However, if a Black person says the word, it's fine. I'm not just talking about saying it in private around friends, or being caught saying it in an outburst in a live stream or anything, but full on mainstream media releases, they can say it a million times and nobody bats an eyelid. It's honestly ridiculous how many songs in the charts currently by black or mixed-race rappers are full of the N-Word, and its fine? Kendrick Lamar can say it in his song, but Aitch would get completely cancelled if his verse included the word.
The double standard around this word are utterly bonkers. If it is so bad, and we are living in a world where prejudice against race is something we are trying to eradicate, why can an increasingly vocal community say something which people they have influence over will have their lives ruined if they are caught saying it? Either everybody can say it, or nobody can. What happens if I, as a white person, go and do Karaoke of a song I like? My playslist is currently playing Starboy by The Weekend, which uses the word a lot. If I get caught up in the moment and just sing the lyrics as they are written on the screen, what happens then?
I hate the word, and I hate the double standards it brings.
The Scots might get angry or they might be happy about it. Unsure.I guess it depends upon whether Scots people or ten-year old boys complain en masse. The days of blackface are long over and it's not like the change seems to be hurting the show any.
James Doohan was Canadian.The Scots might get angry or they might be happy about it. Unsure.
Does Woke-Free mean making it a public space for rough sleepers? 😶Wrexham: 'Woke-free zone' flag needs permission from council - BBC News
Flown outside shop Net World Sports, its owner says a 'cloak of wokeness' has taken over society.www.bbc.com
Why would I be offended?@MatskiMonk so what?
I think you're offended and you're offering up some collective as victims of a slight not directed at them to justify your offense.
Very accurately described.I deserve a warning that I may be converted, but that's also a daily occurrence in the Deep South, along with sudden prayer offerings at a restaurant, offers to attend church, warnings of an underworld after this life, as well as repeated tantalizing offers of delicious, aromatic, and scrumptious smoked pork products, obviously offered up by the same amazing creature standing on hind legs while donning a chef's headgear.
Oh no is that offensive? I also called them an invalid. I am absolutely racked by grief that I have caused you offense personally and/or caused you to be offended on another's behalf. I promise I will only ever refer to them as disa--You called a disabled guy a "cripple".
I don't know man, I got nothin'. I thought that was the word! Some are offended by "cripple," some are offended by "handicapped," some are offended by "wheelchair-bound." I remember that "differently abled" was supposed to be the word but then it was decided that that's offensive as well. I didn't think "disabled" offended anyone but there we are. By what else should those with disabilities be identified? I tend to just call them people except in situations, as discussion, where a particular condition is relevant.It's not OK to call a fat person fat but it's OK to call a disabled person disabled.
The answer is that offense is subjective. That a word for a thing may cause offense doesn't mean that it's not okay. It just means that it offends. That isn't substantive. Throw enough words at the wall and most everyone is going to be offended by something. People have the right to be offended. It would be nice if it was reasonable but that offense is reasonable isn't a condition of the right. I don't think offense at "cripple" is reasonable and I think offense at "defective" when used to describe a cripple is. Judgement of offense is every bit as subjective as offense itself, and that's precisely why that offense is reasonable isn't a condition of the right.Is it okay to substitute fat with "curvy"? How about "husky", "tubby" or "chunky"? Is "crippled" an acceptable alternative to the latter? Why/not?
I've got the answer, but I'm interested to see if you arrive at it yourself.
lol. "Again." Like you ever have. I can't recall you having ever engaged something with which you disagree in a manner other than quoting part of an individual's post and flinging bad faith arguments in its general direction.Remind me why I should engage with you again.
Would you call someone with Down's syndrome a "downy"? Someone with intellectual limitations "retarded"?Oh no is that offensive? I also called them an invalid. I am absolutely racked by grief that I have caused you offense personally and/or caused you to be offended on another's behalf. I promise I will only ever refer to them as disa--
Ohh... [sucking teeth]
Huh!
[Context: The post quoted below was offered as something with which umbrage is taken. This can be observed as the post appears originally.]
I don't know man, I got nothin'. I thought that was the word! Some are offended by "cripple," some are offended by "handicapped," some are offended by "wheelchair-bound." I remember that "differently abled" was supposed to be the word but then it was decided that that's offensive as well. I didn't think "disabled" offended anyone but there we are. By what else should those with disabilities be identified? I tend to just call them people except in situations, as discussion, where a particular condition is relevant.
Do you, @HenrySwanson, want I should say "disabled" and ignore what offends another so that you can not be offended on their behalf? That doesn't make any sense to me. I mean I'm probably not going to anyway because offense isn't harm. The ones what get all het up about "political correctness" (Boo!) say that we shouldn't change language on the basis that individuals are offended and I tend to not. I use terms like "cripple" and "queer" because they are understood descriptors and are, or have been, the accepted term insofar as terms are accepted.
A disabled person isn't necessary a cripple. A friend of mine is severely arthritic in the right hand such that his fingers can barely be moved when external force is applied, much less be moved on their own. I think it's exaggeration as he's prone to such, but he's described it as requiring the skin of his hand to be peeled off like a glove and so he's not in a huge rush to have surgery. Had dinner with him and other friends last night as is usually a weekly occurrence, and we've collectively decided that he won't talk about that during these meals. Anyway he's disabled but he's not a cripple. A cripple is one with extreme hindrance to leg function. I think it's a linguistic derivation of "creep" as in to creep along the ground because of one's condition. I gather that individual's leg function is hindered as such and "cripple" refers to that condition. "Invalid" is less specific but may refer to one who is bound to a wheelchair or a bed. An invalid isn't necessarily disabled in the way that we usually think of the latter and one who is disabled isn't necessarily an invalid.
If my aim was to offend, I could maybe see calling someone who is so disabled "defective" but honestly I can't actually see doing so because that's a bridge too far. Is that "political correctness" (Boo!)? I don't think it's a matter of changing language so as to not offend because "defective" isn't a useful descriptor and I don't think it's ever been an accepted term insofar as terms are accepted.
Since you've apparently decided that "cripple" can't be used, I suppose you'll have to cancel Charles Dickens for how he described Tiny Tim in A Christmas Carol.
Anyway I responded to the post from the other individual that I quoted above.
The answer is that offense is subjective. That a word for a thing may cause offense doesn't mean that it's not okay. It just means that it offends. That isn't substantive. Throw enough words at the wall and most everyone is going to be offended by something. People have the right to be offended. It would be nice if it was reasonable but that offense is reasonable isn't a condition of the right. I don't think offense at "cripple" is reasonable and I think offense at "defective" when used to describe a cripple is. Judgement of offense is every bit as subjective as offense itself, and that's precisely why that offense is reasonable isn't a condition of the right.
lol. "Again." Like you ever have. I can't recall you having ever engaged something with which you disagree in a manner other than quoting part of an individual's post and flinging bad faith arguments in its general direction.
Actually... that.By what else should those with disabilities be identified?
I mean I'd never heard the term before you mentioned it and I've never had occasion to refer to anyone as such directly nor have I thought to do so indirectly. I kind of want to now.Would you call someone with Down's syndrome a "downy"?
InTeLlEcTuAl LiMiTaTiOnS. What? I have intellectual limitations. Higher math and physics calculations which lean on it heavily make me feel like a blithering idiot.Someone with intellectual limitations "retarded"?
That's fine and frankly "people with disabilities" rolls off the tongue. It's a perfectly good collective term that I'm given to use. Collective terminology isn't at issue here as one took (or feigned) offense at my referring to another, directly, as a cripple. Is "disabled" not the appropriate term in such contexts? That they are a person would seem to be a given and referring to them directly as a "person with disabilities" just feels awkward and maybe even a little pandering.That terminology shifts the emphasis from the disability to the person. A "disabled person" is defined by their disability, but a "person with disability" is defined by being a person first. It's a small but important difference.