There's your problem Team 666, stop puting a roll cage on every car, some cars handle worse with it appled because, roll cages make the body flex less, what happens when there is less torque play in the chassis, the car turns like a brick. Heck they even said that adding the rigidity will make the car hard to turn. You'll then have to go tune the suspension all over again to account for the new rigid chassis.
Why on earth would you feel the need to increase the rigidity on the Audi R8?
1. the moment you applied that, you screwed up the car's balance
2. you will now have to recalibrate the suspension settings to match the "stiffer" chassis
3. This car already has it's specific space frame which is the suspension is tuned around.
It's not the refresher option that's making the car undriveable, you already did that yourself by adding the rigidity option. I've added the Rigidity option to the Ford GT(non race car). The car is now quite stiff, but I like that because I tuned the suspension to dial out oversteer. I bet that if you bought a new R8 and left it as is and drove it around until the refresher option became available, or until you found it hard to drive, then apply the refresher option, bet it will go back to it's original handling. I'm also willing to wager a guess that when you applied the increased rigidity, you car was hard to handle, then you had to tune out things...in a purpose built race car. You know that doesn't sound right, now does it.
And for the individual who brought up the visual representation, there are a great many things that aren't visually represented in GT4, like L4S said, the front air splitter isn't visually represented, neither is the rear diffuser, things that need to change the shape of the main chassis are not visually represented in GT4, just those gargantuan wings.