The General Relationship Thread

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Yea, this is a new relationship not a marriage.

I understand being there for someone but at this point that is on hold.

Get yourself checked man, ASAP. Health is the priority in this matter, I don't know why that wasn't your first thought.

Also it is weird and a major breach of privacy that you're posting the nitty gritty medical details of another person on an online forum.

We don't need to know their name, address, etc for this to be a breach of privacy. Don't ever overshare information like this.

Sorry, I'm just desperate :(

I'm on my way to the clinic. I just want today to end.
 
Sorry, I'm just desperate :(

I'm on my way to the clinic. I just want today to end.

And we're here to help, as are your friends and family.

Get the test done and try to relax. No use in crying over spilt milk, right? Put everything on hold, once you get the results you can then think of how to move forward.

For now keep your head square on your shoulders and your chin up.
 
More importantly, why no condoms?

Edit: I only ask because it could mitigate the spread of infection, if it did happen.
 
I'm in a dilemma and I need help.

I've known a friend since High School and we would play games together, we did a lot more together after School when we joined the same disability support facility that helps transition to work. She seemed to have problems controlling her emotions but I would always try to support her.

However she started developing feelings for me, I started it picking it up when she would hug and latch on me when a group of us hang out at a card game shop on Saturdays, apparently other people were talking about it and another friend spilled the beans about the situation, which cause her to freak out and be in constant denial. I wasn't a part of this scenario and was just hearing things after the fact

She eventually came out to me and confessed her feelings for me, I turned her down as I never have any interest in having a relationship. I reassured her that we'd still be friends and nothing would change.

However she appears to have gone back to denial and never slow down. She became more touch feely to me after I came back from a week holiday. I started getting uncomfortable with this and it was somehow impacting my other friends including Friend C. I then got to a private chat with her and tried to comfortably tell her to tone it down but while she did get less hand holding, I don't think her feelings went away. I haven't been playing games with my friends for awhile mainly due to my work schedule being early mornings and theirs in the day so there's no time but she decided to have a private chat to me and was scared we were going "distant" and how it " wasn't the same without me". I tried to reassure her that regardless we were still friends and I would like to keep that why but she seemed upset about this.

This comes back to what I need help with. How do I shut her down of being in any relationship without sacrificing our friendship? She seems to get very 180 to friends she hasn't seen, when one of her friends moves out of town, she considered her "dead to me"
 
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