Sorry, but knowing how the US has been brought up, concern over racism will never go away, especially being black.
For you to tell us to stop worrying about racism is telling people to turn a blind eye when someone of color is shot. Really, from what I've been reading from your posts, you reek of the "white people too!" narrative...
Well , understand that everyone knows that white people get killed by police all of the time in the US, and that is because white people are the majority. Blacks are a minority, but there is a higher chance of blacks being imprisoned and killed by authority.
You seem to understand that police should not consider their lives over others, but where I think you are lacking is the ability to consider race in police/pedestrian interaction, and how it ties into how someone is likely to be treated.
I'm sure you're knowledgeable when it comes to many things, but you should take an African American history course to truly understand why the color of our or my skin is brought up so frequently.
I understand American history. For a little while, the Japanese were the enemy, and we rounded up Japanese people into camps. This happened quite a bit more recently than slavery, yet we do not talk about how the Japanese have never been able to overcome their disadvantage due to prejudice. We literally took Japenese Americans from their homes and put them into prison for being Japanese. So another thing I need people to stop is whining about slavery which ended, what, a century and a half ago. White people died by the hundreds of thousands to end it, it's done. Let's move on. Nobody alive today was enslaved, nobody alive today owned slaves, nobody alive today was involved in anything to do with slavery.
You seem to have missed my entire point... so I'll state it again. Police (not all, but a lot) are jerks. Jerks are attracted to the job. The people that shoved the other kids around in high school like shoving people around, so they become cops. It represents some of the highest authority you can get over your fellow citizens, and so people who crave authority crave the job. These same jerks end up shooting people, beating people, and harassing them - white, black, Hispanic... do Asian people break the law? Police harass, hit, and shoot because it's what they joined the police force to do. Not all of them... but more than enough of them.
There is a thing called confirmation bias. You have a statistic in your head - like that there are a disproportionate number of black people in prison, and then you form an opinion - like that there can be no rational explanation for this, and that black people must be getting picked on by police. Then when you see a news story about a black person getting picked on by police, you solidify that opinion (this is the confirmation bias part). You ignore all of the stories about white people being picked on and say "see, black people are disproportionately picked on" even though what you just saw doesn't actually confirm that. Confirmation bias is something we all do, I'm guilty, you're guilty, everyone is guilty of this. Trump uses it actively in his campaign. Hillary does too now.
The uproar when a black person gets shot by a white cop (which isn't even the case in this case, but whatever) is racist. To say this event matters more than the white guy that gets executed is racist. And racism needs to stop.
While those stories you linked are no doubt tragic for everyone involved, they are the extreme minority. How often do you think it is reported when thousands of times a day Officers deal with similar situations but with different outcomes? Not very often, so to say that "they've demonstrated such a profound inability to pay attention to weather or not there is actually a weapon" is simply dishonest. Hundreds of thousands of Officers make hundreds of thousands of stops a day, sometimes one of them makes a bad call and it unfortunately destroys the lives of just about everyone involved.
As far as waiting for deadly force to be used against me before responding with my own deadly force, I didn't throw away my rights when I was sworn in, I have just as much right to protect myself from a threat and get home to my wife and son at the end of my shift as you do.
Yes you do. Your rights don't get thrown away when you get sworn in as a police officer. Your training should be to shoot only after you are shot at - not when you see someone reach for something that might be a weapon. Let me be clear, no police officer should be trained to shoot before shot at. I'm not saying it should be illegal for a police officer to shoot before shot at, I'm saying you shouldn't be trained to do so. If you do shoot before shot at, you should be held to the same standards as any civilian doing the same - which means you may be brought up on charges and those charges may be dismissed based on the circumstances of the case.
I fully understand that police officers make lots of calls and some of them will statistically end up bad. This is a training issue. This is police officers signing up to be heroes, not signing up to cover their rear ends at every step. When a cop pulls someone over, they're risking their lives (so maybe they shouldn't do it for some of the nonsense that they do it for), and when they go to a domestic dispute call (which I understand is a lot of the job), they're risking their lives. But that's the job, the job is risk your life to protect the people - and that means not assuming everything is a gun. It also means not even assuming every gun is a threat.
What I hate about the story of the kid who got shot for holding the nintendo wii controller is that it could have been a gun and
he still shouldn't have been shot. It's not against the law to have a gun in your home - and even to hold it. People need the benefit of the doubt, and I'm sure that's hard when most of the people these officers see are 'bags, but when a cop loses the ability to offer the people the benefit of the doubt it's over - they're not fit for the job anymore. Someone holding a gun in their home should get the benefit of the doubt that that gun is legal, and that the person holding it is not a murderer. Far too easily it seems police are allowed to assume that the presence of a gun (or anything slightly resembling a gun) means that the person holding it is a psychopath ready to kill anyone they see.