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So its the third one then.If I was to relocate country, I would keep my belief and my way of life at my home, I would also try fit into their culture for social purposes, I may not like all of it but I would try at least,
However, prior to relocating I would research that country and find out what their culture and how their ways of life are before moving, if I knew I wouldn't like it I wouldn't go,
For example, because I swear and curse for all eternity when I stub my toe at home, doesn't mean I'm going to swear and curse when I did it in public, for the respect that swears and curses can be offensive to others,
OK so we have established that only the cultural norms of the host country are acceptable outside of the home for you. Now who gets to decide these cultural norms and how do you enforce them? Are they the Polynesian, Maori or European ones?
You see I'm fairly sure that while for you its a cultural norm to not swear outside the home, for a good number of your fellow countrymen its a cultural norm to swear any place they like. Given that who's right, you or them?
This is the issue with this kind of approach, who gets to decide what norms are and how do you ensure that they don't cause offence?
Its an impossible standard and also a quite unrealistic one, why should other cultural norms be a problem be they in the home or outside as long as they meet the laws of the country and do not impact on the rights of others? I'm not religious (quite the opposite) yet I have no issue if someone wants to head outside wearing a cross, a turban,
Shalwar Kameez, Kippah, etc. Its doesn't impact me one little bit and I have no logical or reasonable reason to stop them doing so.