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Problem is I rarely, if ever, see an atheist (at least on the Internet, I don't know any personally in every day interactions) happily discuss how they arrived at their conclusion, it's typically just filled with hate towards religion.
I addressed this. They're called :censored:holes, not atheists, and what they think is not the reason for why they behave the way they do.
It's not mandatory that you be a jerk if you disagree with someone, no matter which side of the fence you're on. Although as you can see in this thread there's also plenty of examples of people of all beliefs (or lack of) being MASSIVE jerks.
The main reason I'm not an atheist any more was that I thought a majority of atheists I came across were massive jerks and it made me stand back and reexamine my beliefs to see if I was being like that. Turn out I was and when I started listening to the other-side of the argument instead of instantly discrediting it, I found that I did believe in a higher power after all.
Why is that? Please share what got you to your current state.
This is what I was referring to in my post, many atheists refuse to even listen to anyone who's theist without getting some superiority complex about them and instantly say thing to them like "don't believe in imaginary friends", "why don't you beat your wife like the Bible says", "why do you believe in children's stories", etc.
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I also agree that many theists, especially ones with more evangelicals beliefs, will refuse to listen to atheists and I think they are wrong too, they should at least consider the possibility their beliefs might be incorrect or unfounded all together.
That was the point that I was making. But the difference is that no matter how aggressively atheist someone may be, there is always a simple method to prove to them that they're wrong; show them God, or direct evidence of. All atheists who are not dribbling morons will accept this, no matter how much they might dislike it.
But what would a theist accept as a demonstration that they might be wrong? Assuming that they're reasonably well informed and already know about Russell's Teapot and critical thinking, there is demonstrably nothing. Their belief is by their own admission beyond rationality and logic, and so there is no system by which one can explain to them why their beliefs might be incorrect.
See as an example the Bible. Putting aside the aggressive way you termed some of the issues with it, there are a lot of parts of the Bible that are either contradictory or that people ignore outright as not compatible with modern culture. Yet this is still generally held up as a perfect document that communicates the word of God, a perfect being. It's actually a very good place to start with getting people to consider how total their belief is, and how actually might they not be creating their own beliefs based on what they think is right and good using Christianity as a draft to work from.
All I'm saying is that it makes more sense to listen then instantly refute on both sides. You should also always be challenging yourself on what you believe to be true, whether is a belief in a higher power or a non-belief. I personally don't see enough of it, especially between varying religious beliefs, and I think religion and God would be less of a hot topic if people just listened instead of instantly refuting.
Well, quite.
But I think that you'll find that the views of any given church or religion have changed fairly little over the centuries, often despite evidence to the contrary. Atheism hasn't changed much either in a fundamental way, there's still no evidence for a higher being. On the other hand, atheism tends to be pretty tolerant of societal changes like the modern acceptance of homosexual relationships and gender fluidity. Because it's based on critical thinking, most people find no real reason to oppose these things except for possibly that it squicks them out.
I feel like you're equating belief in a higher power and non-belief in something for which there is no evidence as equally rational and sensible conclusions. While you're free to believe whatever you want, they are not objectively equal. I know theists who will absolutely admit that their belief is irrational and that they're fine with that, but if someone tries to present belief in God as a rational choice then I have to at least question how they got to that point.