Does size really matter?

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Does size really matter?

  • Yes!

    Votes: 38 59.4%
  • Nah..

    Votes: 26 40.6%

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VIPFREAK
Ur a playah like my tubby friend arn't you? I still wonder how he picks up chicks. :scared:

Player has an R at the end...

that's, like...that's pretty much it. My status as a player, that is.

I'm still working on the chicks part. :guilty:
 
Fat chicks need lovin' too, but I'll delegate that task to someone else, thanks. Someone who is appropriately chubby themselves.

I agree with SmellySocks generally. My rule is that seeing bones is not cool (if unhealthily skinny its bad, if its their natural weight I don't mind so much), but inversely, if there is any chub sticking out lumpy over the top of the jeans (not a smooth line) that is also a big turn off. Nothin' worse than a fat chick in low cut jeans, and there are many. :(
 
Gabkicks
i dont like it when women look like they eat as often as they take their car in for inspection.


Women never take their car in for an inspection - these women you are talking about must be dead - or Lindsey Lohan (she has a car that does it own thing any way - so it probably takes itself for a service)
 
Do i smell hypocrisy in this thread? :lol:

Most of you seem to like it average to average+, yet the norm that most women fight too stand up to is skinny.

Sortof like the Chris Bangle issue. Carfans all over the world pukes on his creations, yet BMW:s sales figures are skyrocketing.

Do not underestimate the power of the social desirability effect.
;)
 
if skinny supermodel type chicks are BMW's... then what''s a TVR? a really hot bootylicious stipper type girl with a coke addiction?
 
Gabkicks
if skinny supermodel type chicks are BMW's... then what''s a TVR? a really hot bootylicious stipper type girl with a coke addiction?

Ummm.. mabye. :lol:

Don't underestimate the beauty of dating a crackhoe.
 
Jugend
Do i smell hypocrisy in this thread? :lol:

Most of you seem to like it average to average+, yet the norm that most women fight too stand up to is skinny.

Because normal women look at skinny models/actresses in their magazines and think that they should look like that. Men, in reality, don't like women to be that shape, they like their women to be womenly. Models aren't womenly - the womenly shape doesn't suit what fashion designers (mostly gay men) think is the ideal shape to show-off their clothes to best effect. Film and TV add pounds to people, so actresses tend to try to be skinny.

Jugend
Sortof like the Chris Bangle issue. Carfans all over the world pukes on his creations, yet BMW:s sales figures are skyrocketing.

Do not underestimate the power of the social desirability effect.
;)

More & more people buy BMW's and the like just because of the badge - Carfans are probably turning away in their droves.
 
TheCracker
Because normal women look at skinny models/actresses in their magazines and think that they should look like that. Men, in reality, don't like women to be that shape, they like their women to be womenly. Models aren't womenly - the womenly shape doesn't suit what fashion designers (mostly gay men) think is the ideal shape to show-off their clothes to best effect. Film and TV add pounds to people, so actresses tend to try to be skinny.

I'd say this norm is visible pretty much everywhere in all medias and also in many other ways in the society, hence both men and women are equally exposed to it. Yes, men doesnt read chicks magazines but on the other hand I could mention quite a lot of magazines for men with the same stereotyped woman.

Womanly or not, it would probably be the same result with a thread like this on a forum with 98% women. Most would say their preffered female bodytype is average but in fact almost all of them would like to loose 10 pounds and have a little less fat than the "average" one.

I have absolute no support for this except my own thoughts and reasoning.

More & more people buy BMW's and the like just because of the badge - Carfans are probably turning away in their droves.

Probably.
 
I'd be interested in knowing how the age demographics for the expressed opinions in this thread pan out.

I'm guessing that the older posters (like myself), the ones who have escaped from the clutches of testosterone and media-fed peer-pressure, are the ones who realise that the way a woman looks is no guide at all to how good a woman she is. In fact, I have found over the years, by dint of practical field experimentation and observation, that there seems to be an inverse relationship between how physically attractive a woman is (by 'popular culture' benchmarks) and how attractive she really is.

Unless it reaches medically threatening proportions, then a lass being somewhat overweight is a side-effect of our culture and is essentially of no importance.
 
sukerkin
I'm guessing that the older posters (like myself), the ones who have escaped from the clutches of testosterone and media-fed peer-pressure, are the ones who realise that the way a woman looks is no guide at all to how good a woman she is.

If by how good a woman she is you mean what is attractive to a man I'm the opposite. I'm 30 years now and tend to be more and more picky with the external qualities.

If by how good a woman she is you mean how good a person she is I agree with you.

In fact, I have found over the years, by dint of practical field experimentation and observation, that there seems to be an inverse relationship between how physically attractive a woman is (by 'popular culture' benchmarks) and how attractive she really is.

My excperiences from all women I met gives me no confirmation on this at all. Mabye you're overreacting to a handful of mediawhore *****es you met?
 
Jugend
If by how good a woman she is you mean how good a person she is I agree with you.

That's the interpretation I intended 👍.


Jugend
My excperiences from all women I met gives me no confirmation on this at all. Mabye you're overreacting to a handful of mediawhore *****es you met?

I suppose I've just ended up with superficially lovely women who were fatally flawed in terms of their natures.

As ever in these matters, your mileage may vary :lol:.
 
Only fat lardasses say that size doesn't matter. People always say "it's the personality that counts"... which is mostly true. Take a very nice fat girl and a very nice slender girl, both with great personalities.... hmmm which one to go for? Lets see.... damn right. Maybe only some African tribesman from a region where fat is considered a status symbol would go for the fat one, but anyone else would pick the one without the bubble butt and stretch marks.


Not to mention fat women usually STINK too. They became fat because of a bad diet, always eating junk food, or at least skipping on the healthy food like fruit and stuff with fibers. They'll fart more than average and the entire room will smell like you're bathing a decomposing corpse, due to the gasses being released while digesting kilos of hamburger meat. Not to mention the old sweat under those fat hills. Creating a wonderful environment for bacteria to breed like rabbits, but worse, at a rate of millions per minute. All the layers of fat on top of each other cause friction too, so she will get disgusting rash everywhere which she will be complaining about until you feel like wringing her neck. The worst part about that is that she's too fat to put your hands around her neck, leaving you even more frustrated. You will also spend many years of your old day pushing a wheelchair because her knees collapsed. You will often have to go visit her daily in the hospital every time she gets a bypass, because her veins corroded due to the high levels of cholestorol. Not even to mention the hospital bill!











..... haha just playing, I'm not THAT ignorant. This might only be the case if people are extremely obese, the ones that are on oprah or jerry springer... Someone's figure is often a good indicator of how well they take care of themselves though..... but...... fat people often are good cooks (if they didn't get fat by only eating microwave food).
 
Gabkicks
if skinny supermodel type chicks are BMW's... then what''s a TVR? a really hot bootylicious stipper type girl with a coke addiction?

Don't forget having a bad temper, being easily pissed off and probably a wild ride that kicks you in the nuts if you don't pay attention.




Jugend
I have big problems even with tiny portions of excessive bodyfat. It doesnt have to be model-skinny but almost. This goes for myself too, I feel very unattractive with a few kgs around my waist.

What do you understand under 'a few kgs around my waist'. And what do you consider an attractive BMI for women from your experience?
 
Satorian
What do you understand under 'a few kgs around my waist'. And what do you consider an attractive BMI for women from your experience?

Very good question. Stupidly noone brought the BMI up before as it can avoid at least some misunderstandings.

Wait.. calculator..

There.

Myself I feel "at home" in my body with a BMI of about 21.5 (191 cm /78-79 kg)

And the few women I've been really attracted to all have had a BMI app.19-20 (i.e. 168 cm / 53 kg)

Satorian, do you have any preferences yourself?
 
I'm about in the same ballpark. Personally I'm at a BMI of ~20.5 (179cm/66kg) from running two to three times a week, so I'm no lard ass. :dopey:

Most girls that catch my eyes are fairly slim and trained at 19-20, which is the same range you have given. To expand a bit I'll go with a few celebs as most people should be familiar with them. Women like Gwen Stefani and Kylie Minogue are incredibly attractive, but I wouldn't mind if they put on a 3-4 kgs each either for example. And there are more women that are as attractive as women get: Monica Bellucci, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Famke Janssen, Elisha Cuthbert, Mary Elizabeth Winstead.

Especially Famke Janssen though. I think she's God's wet dream. Just perfect. 👍

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Sorry for the sudden celeb picture posting, but I think nobody will really complain. :dunce:
 
you could've thumbnailed those pictures instead of whoring them all over the place and effing up the borders.

edit: by the way, she's too skinny. get thumpin, nip tuck girl.
 
Yeah, she's got a pretty enough face, but she's a solid 20 pounds underweight.
 
I don't know if these will be considered inappropriate, but she is definitely covered, of course.

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Anyway, it's definitely my ideal size in a woman. Nothing smaller and not too much larger. Beauchamp has a nice figure.
 
yep, and it is DEFINITELY not worksafe.

this might even be pushing it...

 
Sage
I've actually found that most girls who are runners look the best-proportioned, because none of them are fatty-fat, but they're also not unbelievably skinny, since running builds up an extra few pounds of leg muscle. In other words, they don't look like twigs.

Have you spent any serious amount of time around alot of female competitive runners? Not all of them are twigs, bit there are quite a few.

Last time I had a physical I was ten pounds under what they said I should be (though I don't look it) but on the other hand If I want to be as competitive as possible I'd have to lose at least another ten. I have a good friend of the same height and build as me who weighed twenty pounds less then I do for quite a while.

I tend to like gals who are a chubby enough to be cute and nothing past that.
 
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