So make the team less of a team then.
People need to work out their own limitations, if your player has tried to beat the same 3 huddled players time after time, try something else. Pass it, swap sides etc. If you keep on doing it and screw up, it is frustrating for the rest of us to watch. First off all your stats will improve unlocking accomplishments, the second we will still have the ball. The get ball, Sprint towards goal, lose ball, then rinse and repeat is obvious and rarely works.
I reckon we should have a season, where results don't matter and we try to focus on playing well. If that doesn't help, we can resort to plan B.