I was just pointing out that his "you have another 128 hours in the week" is unrealistic if you plan on not dying from lack of sleep. I would guess that he put that reply out in a rush and didn't think about that. Either way, I've got work to do...
Of course you have to balance all of your needs but it still leaves a huge chunk of time if you have a 40 hour work week. I've never really had a real job perse, one where you work a set amount of time and then go home, other than summer jobs and the odd part time job. Mostly I've been self employed or in sales of some kind. I became self employed for the first time basically out of anger, in my mid-20's, after being fired for literally being too good at my job. I was a General Sales Manager (fake news title since I was the only sales person
) for a new fence and deck company and sold enough work by July to keep them busy until the fall. So, like a prudent business man, he let me go to save my salary, although he did pay me my commissions as the work came through. Even at the time I understood his reasons but I was so mad at not being in control of my destiny that I decided I'd be self employed from then on. Problem was, I really had no marketable skills to speak of, but I knew how to sell decks and fences and I knew, on an intellectual level, how to build them. I'd never actually built a fence or a deck, or mixed concrete, or tried to line up a run of 100 feet of fence posts or anything at all to do with decks and fences. I lived in an apartment at the time, with no storage space at all. I talked it over with the wife and she was horrified but knew I was committed and there was no turning back. Our future depended on my success.
Over the winter I worked it all out on paper, studied the relevant buidling codes, researched building techniques, and took pretty much all the money the wife and I had saved, and bought a flatbed truck and an assortment of tools. I had 10,000 flyers printed up and delivered them all by hand, personally. I ran an ad in the paper and hired a guy. His base salary was hourly minimum wage + piece work, depending on how many feet of fence or deck we completed that week. Before the season started I had sold about $25,000 in contracts. On the first job I ever did, it was a straight run of fence on the back 40 of a long, skinny lot. It wasn't exactly straight when I was finished
but I was pretty proud of myself that I got through it and it looked like a fence. The customer was happy. 90% of what I needed to know and 90% of the mistakes I would ever make were in that 1 job. I'll never forget when we wrapped up on the third day, me admiring our handiwork, and my staff turning to me and saying, "
Have you done this before?".
This type of experience colours all of my opinions when it comes to work and pay and a whole series of issues. As a self starter I find myself incredulous when people demand that their employers owe them a living wage. It doesn't jibe with my view of the world. I have a position available, this is what it pays, this is what I expect from you, this is what you get from me. I don't
"owe" you anything, other than what I promised you when you took the job. I took guys that were unskilled and gave them a skill. The harder they worked, the more they got paid, something I've always believed in. I routinely put in 70-80 hour weeks but my staff were usually 40-60 and they'd make $500-600 per week. This was in the late 80's, not an inconsiderable sum at the time, for unskilled labour. At the same time, I demanded a lot. You had to be very punctual, especially because most of the time I was picking them up to go to a jobsite. You had to work almost as hard as me. If I carried 9 2x4's from the bundle you had to carry 6 or 7, not 2 or 3. You had to come prepared with your own tools (a hammer and a pouch basically) and enough food for the day. Some guys only lasted a few days or a couple of weeks. A few lasted for a whole season.
There's nothing unusual to my story. Probably half of my friends are self-employed and they all have a story to tell. But they all have the same thing in common. They created their own destiny through hard work and determination and didn't rely on anyone else, beyond the support of their family and friends, to make a go of it. Some got a financial boost from parents, most did not. Not all of them are uber successful but some are. Not all of them are free of failure but some are. Most started out making peanuts, working as poorly paid apprentices in many cases, risking everything in other cases to go it completely alone. I don't think I know anyone that didn't work 2 or 3 jobs when they were younger.
Success isn't given to you. It's there for the taking but you have to go out and get it. No one is going to hand it to you. For some it comes through employment, but you need to acquire the skills and experience to make yourself valuable. For others, they simply create it from nothing, through their own hard work, determination and skillset. Either way, it's up to you.