Guys/girls,
I'm 25, male, overweight and very unfit and I think it's time I did something about it. I can't afford to join a gym and truth be told I don't think I'd keep up with it as I'm always alternating between a week at home and a week at my girlfriend's so establishing a routine is difficult, so I want to do basic exercises at home, use my exercise bike and dumbbells (which I bought months ago and have used maybe once because I have no idea what I'm supposed to be doing).
Basically I want to lose weight, gain some upper body strength, strengthen my back if at all possible and improve my cardio fitness, but I should point out that I have retroverted hip sockets and have been told that I shouldn't run, play most sports or basically do anything that puts force on my hips, though cycling is fine and I imagine things like rowing, climbing, swimming and so on are also fine. No football (soccer), rugby, jogging or racket sports, though.
So I'm just wondering if you can suggest basic exercises (sit ups, push ups, squats sort of thing), how many I should do, how I should build up the amount that I do, what time of day I should do them and so on. I also don't know what sorts of stretches I should do before and after.
With the exercise bike, I've heard that you're not really supposed to do it every single day because it's not good for your muscles, but if I were to alternate between half an hour of relatively sedate cycling one day and a strenuous half hour the next, would that be ok? I don't want to overdo it, though.
And then there's the dumbbells. I don't have a bench, though I have been thinking of getting one if I get into the habit of using the weights, but the problem is I'm worried I'll do it wrong and end up with an unbalanced muscle growth thing. Also, I don't know which exercises I should be doing with them, how many I should do nor how often I should do them. I don't know which stretches to do either.
Is there anything else I should look at? My girlfriend is trying to get me to go swimming and cycling with her but I want to build up some confidence, fitness and frankly some firmness too before I do that stuff, she's in great shape and I'm sure my lack of fitness will become a problem in our relationship sooner or later!
I think I at least get the bare minimum of exercise in my regular life, but only because I walk the dogs and walk to and from the train station almost every day to get to college (I'm a full time student). Over Christmas it wasn't ideal dog-walking weather (too cold, wet and muddy for a Weimaraner with hardly any fur and a bichon with easily matted hair) and I wasn't commuting, but I WAS eating far too much so I put on a lot of weight, but it's starting to come off again so I must be doing something right I guess.
So yeah, any input you could give would be greatly appreciated. I think my target is to lose about 2 stone, gain a little bit of muscle and improve my cardio fitness so that I might not die before I'm 30. I'm exaggerating, I'm not THAT bad but it's better to convince yourself that you are, I guess, for motivation.
Cheers!