So basically there's no cool way to drive a pickup? No matter what you do to it, it's never going to be cool?
(What I'm about to say is not a stab at your previous car or you) Take a civic for example, it gets good mileage, carries a couple people and makes for a good runaround. They aren't fast, they handle like any other light fwd car, and really have very little going for them in terms of cool without modifications.
What makes a car like that cool, while a pickup truck has no chance to be cool?
I find the HiLux to be (a very ironic name, to say the least) a cool little truck. It'll drive through damn near anything, runs like a Deere, gets decent mileage, has a bed you can toss your crap in, and has a lot more presence than a civic/corolla/etc