Diablo, find your motivation where you can. For me, I was sick of being fat and feeling like crap all the time. I've been at it hard for 18 months now and can see some extreme gains that I have never experienced before. Keeping what I have now and setting goals (I want to bench press over 400 lbs by this winter) is what motivates me. Set realistic goals, track your progress, and set new goals when you reach them. I can see some pretty basic goals into a couple different areas.
Your goal could be to loose weight. This can be discouraging because muscle weighs more than fat. So if you're working out, you might not see any gains on the scale. If loosing weight is your goal, nutrition and cardio should be your routine.
Your goal could be to lift a certain weight. Track your gains and progress through a daily/weekly journal. Increase weight or more reps can show you gains. Again, nutrition is vital, but you may want to eat more high carb and protein diets which might not help your physique.
Or your goal might be to tone up, loose fat, and look good. Again, with nutrition being 80% of all your gains, the mirror will be your measuring tool. Take a 'before' picture that you can compare to as time goes on. Hang it on your mirror and use it for inspiration to work harder and to also help remind you of where you came from and how far you've come.
In any case, no goals will come quick. Dedicate 6 months to this change in life style. Don't skip a workout or cheat on a meal for at least the first 2 months and you WILL see changes. Lastly, get a dedicated workout partner if you can. If you have someone else to be accountable to, to help push you, you can offer the same in return. Self discipline is tough, it's easier with a buddy giving you crap if you want to bag out of a workout.
Had a good chest workout today. Best weight/reps so far. Here was my workout today (in lbs.)
Flat Bench Press
135x15 warmup
225x12 warmup still
275x10 getting into the weight
315x8 with a spot on the last two reps
365x6 with a spot on the last two reps
315x8 with a spot on the last three reps
Incline Dumbell Press
90'sx10
100'sx10 with a spot on the last two reps
100'x8 with a spot on the last two reps
Followed up with some light dumb bell flys.
After that, I did a 4 station, three circuit abdominal workout, the circuits were as follows:
-Seated ball twists with your legs raised the whole time x 20 reps
-Weighted rope crunches x 20 reps
-Hanging Straight Leg Raises x 20 reps
-Ball Accordions x 20 reps
Did three of those circuits.
It was a good day!