Yeah, what I've been using as a simple, basic guideline is below, but I'm eager to find a more scientific method, and also a relation between the 3, to work in unison.
Initial. I treat this as if it controls how much engine power(torque) is applied to the rear wheels. The lowest setting of 5, transfers the least amount of power, therefor the least likely to break traction, but also the least likely to accelerate very fast. The highest setting of 60, results in a lot of engine power being transfered, which can cause a loss of traction. The 'sweet spot' is somewhere in the middle, where you find just enough power to accelerate out of the corner, but without breaking traction.
Acceleration. It's easiest to think of this as 'which tire gets the power, applied by the setting you chose from initial'. The lowest setting of 5, results in the inside tire receiving the most power, causing inside tire spin, but more control. The highest setting of 60 results in the outside tire receiving the most power, which will create outside tire spin, giving you a lot of 'on-throttle-rotation' but is definately harder to control. Again, the sweet spot is somewhere in the middle, where both tires get nearly the same amount of torque applied. If you like the car to 'turn' on throttle, add some power to the outside tire (higher accel), if you think the car is too loose on throttle, send more power to the inside tire (lower accel).
DeAccel. Controls the amount of difference between rear tire rotational rates. The lowest setting of 5 allows the car to freely rotate into the corner, but can makes the car unstable, if it 'rotation' becomes 'spinning out'. The highest setting of 60 results in the least amount of difference between the rear tires, which creates the most stability, but allows the least amount of rotation into the corner. As the above 2, the 'sweet spot' appears to be in the center, where you can safely drive into the corner as hard as you want, without experiencing understeer. If the car understeers, lower De-Accel. If it feels like it wants to spin out when you drive in, raise De-Accel.
*Disclaimer* The terms I use are incorrect. I used them to try to help people visualize and understand what each option does, in a measurable and noticeable manner through their own testing. Initial probably works an entirely different way, but how I've explained it, can help anyone understand the cause and effect, which is the main purpose.
Cheat Sheet:
Inital
Lower number = less torque transfered from engine to rear wheels (slow acceleration)
High number = more torque transfered from engine to rear wheels (no traction)
Find the happy medium, it's different for every person, car and set up.
Accel
Lower number = more torque transfered to the inside wheel (control)
Higher number = more torque transfered to the outside wheel (on throttle rotation)
Find the happy medium, where the rear tires have close the the same torque, fine tune high or low based on how the car feels on center through exit, under acceleration.
DeAccel
Lower number = easier to turn into corners, but can cause spinning out
Higher number = more resistance to turn into corners, but more stable.
Find the happy medium, where you can safely drive in as hard as you like, without losing control, or experiecing understeer.
Keep in mind, that since initial will increase or reduce the amount of torque transfered to the rear wheels, that adjusting the initial, will also effect the accel. If you increase the overall torque to the car, it might cause an imbalance in where the torque is being applied by the accel setting. As I increase initial, it usually forces me to lower accel, or I run into outside wheel spin again.