pupik
(I'm going to play devil's advocate on this one...)
There's a big problem with state-run programs; The Florida DCF (Department of Children and Families) can't quite recall where they left "which kid?" with "what care-taker?" such as the Rilya Wilson situation. Suddenly the prospect of a government entity taking lousy care and neglecting your kids is an awful thought, especially when an aribtrary law just takes away your children, and loses them or puts them in an even more dangerous situation than before.
What about the rare case in which an expectant mother gets septuplets instead of just an addition to the family?
How does anyone allow all these horiffic cases of child abuse, such as starvation, pain, privation, and other terrible things that we hear about on the local news every so often? Who's going to step in, and how is this going to happen before it's too late?
(Okay, now my heart's bleeding a little too much for my own tastes.)
I've been meaning to respond to this,
pupik, but haven't seemed to have the time.
I have an anecdotal story to tell along these lines. My wife and I are friends with another couple who have children, all under 12. One of the older boys has been developing behavioral problems in the past few years; short attention span, anxiety, hyperactivity and proclivity to act out.
One day, the boy acts out very aggressively with a sibling and attacks him. The dad has to restrain his son, but in doing so ended up bruising him. To make a long story short, DCF becomes involved. Now, at this point, I should tell you that this guy is one of the nicest, kind-hearted, even-tempered men I have ever met. There is no question in my mind that he loves his children the way any father should and would never in a million years have tried to hurt his son intentionally.
Of courses, DCF has no way of knowing this, so he ends up under investigation for possible child assault charges. That is a felony and will screw up anyones life in a major way. Meanwhile, he losses custody of all his children and he cannot see them except speak on the telephone. This lasts almost three months.
To make a long story short, he pleaded down to a lesser misdemeanor offense and finally got his kids back. But while this was going on, his life must have been a living hell. Not to mention his children were completely upside down with grief because they couldnt see their daddy. As a father myself, I can only imagine what its like not to see your kids for months while wondering if you were going to end up going to jail so that you cannot see them for years. I do know that this fellow did not deserve this.
There is no moral to the story here except to say that this kind of story is the price we pay to have the government in charge of making sure children are protected from the real bad guys. The kids were not in danger. He is a not a threat to them --quite the contrary in fact. At the end of the day, all they did was put a whole family through months of grief, "just in case" something was truly wrong.
Government isn't
free folks. They cost a lot of money, and more importantly, they sometimes cost the time and grief of people who don't deserve it.
M