Finland has been neutral and Russia still provoked them. This is just one of many articles on the subject, but this is from 2020 when Russia Su-27's violated Finnish airspace:
HELSINKI (AP) — Two Russian military aircraft are suspected of having violated Finland's airspace close to its capital city of Helsinki, Finland’s defense ministry said Tuesday. The ministry said in a brief statement that two Russian Su-27 fighter jets allegedly violated Finland’s airspace over...
apnews.com
Or you know, there was the incident in March where Russia violated Swedish airspace with two aircraft that were equipped with nuclear weapons:
Two Russian warplanes loaded with nuclear weapons violated Swedish airspace earlier in March, according to information provided to news programme TV4 Nyheter. A total of four Russian aircraft violated Swedish airspace off Gotland on 2 March, when Finland and Sweden...
www.euractiv.com
Hell, this is an article going all the way to 2016 that talks about Russia provoking the Nordic countries:
Sweden and Finland getting to the point of joining NATO isn't something that they're just doing on a whim. Russia has been provoking them for decades.
Also, in the geopolitical sphere, simply ignoring an authoritarian dictator who's doing his best to LARP as Hitler, isn't the way you solve the issue. The only thing Putin is going to understand at this point is force because he sure as hell doesn't understand neutrality, diplomacy, or even complete and utter economic ruin.