Self Improvement

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It's when you guys conquer the demons that beset humanity the way you do is what separates the men from the boys. ;) Good going. Keep it up - and don't be afraid to pour it all out here. Some of us actually read these threads.

I know I do.
 
I woke up with the intention of giving up smoking this morning. Have made it half way through the day, even a visit to the shop didn't tempt me to buy any though I get intense carvings every so often where I just want to have a smoke. Feels like something is missing from my day, much how it felt when I first gave up booze, so I'm going to use the same technique for the cigarettes.

Got an app on my phone which helps too.
 
Wow, the smokes as well! You'll have nothing else left soon. Are you still getting it on or are Jedi initiates celibate?
 
I'd get thrown out of the house for not doing my marital duties. :)

Now that I've done drink, I might as well go the whole way and detox completely. Even Coke is going to get a limitation on my daily habits.
 
Well after my girlfriend of two years and fiance of one year left me I've been in a funk, one that's lasted me for about five months now. Here recently I've started drinking on the heavier side, and a few of my close friends have raised concerns about out becoming a habit. So before it gets too out of hand I'm going to attempt to get back out there. Anyone hour any advice?
If your still looking for help, try moving to something like energy drinks not in massive amounts but i find this has helped curb my drinking, if your not happy about that try ice lollies, it sounds strange but it helps me as well.

Try exercising as well, Ive decided to start after many nights of convincing myself i will and not following through on it. I finally got fed up of coming home from nights out alone or not having gotten the girl i should have at a club because she's gone off with some steroid junkie with a 🤬 personality.
I do push ups and sit ups every night before i go to bed, I've been doing it for found days now and my arms are agony to lift but I'm forcing myself to keep up with it, last night i was up at 5am doing it because i wouldn't let myself sleep without doing it.
Im fortunate enough to have bottled up a great deal of anger and hurt over 13 or so years so when my arms start to really ache i'll force myself on to do more push-ups until my arms physically give out and then after a break return to it and do the same again.

Another thing is if you can, keep yourself occupied with music, i listen to music when doing anything and in some ways that helps.

Im now looking at buying some weights which a week ago would have been laughable.

Another motivation for improving myself is that a number of the people i hang out with seem to have fallen into drugs so im trying to better myself, instead of getting dragged down.
 
Did a total of 150 push ups in about an 30-45 minute period today. Listening to Heavy Metal music helps me get the motivation to do exercise. It felt great as it is the first time that I've exercised in a long time. I also did some stretches in between a few sets to make sure my muscles did not get stiff. For now my arms feel a bit sore but I'll wait a few hours to see if I want to make it 200 in total today.
 
Did a total of 150 push ups in about an 30-45 minute period today. Listening to Heavy Metal music helps me get the motivation to do exercise. It felt great as it is the first time that I've exercised in a long time. I also did some stretches in between a few sets to make sure my muscles did not get stiff. For now my arms feel a bit sore but I'll wait a few hours to see if I want to make it 200 in total today.

Good Job!
 
I'm 33 in a couple of months time, and although I wasn't fat (13st 5 but I had started to get a beer belly) lol

Time is going so fast these days and I really didn't want to wake up 40 years old and over weight so I decided to join a gym. I've been going about 2months now and I'm now down to 12st 3, I'm physically stronger and starting to get abit toned. I don't want to get over big but being toned is a look I'm going for now.

It is tiring and the gym is boring as s*** but I'm really happy Witt he results so I'm going to stick with it. :)
 
Did a total of 150 push ups in about an 30-45 minute period today. Listening to Heavy Metal music helps me get the motivation to do exercise. It felt great as it is the first time that I've exercised in a long time. I also did some stretches in between a few sets to make sure my muscles did not get stiff. For now my arms feel a bit sore but I'll wait a few hours to see if I want to make it 200 in total today.

Nice. 👍
In our martial arts room there is a big wheel that you have to spin if you are late to class, one of the punishments is 100 pushups. I've never had to spin it, but doing 100 of those things in 5-10 minutes would be pretty hard.
(For me at least, right now. Give me a few weeks.)
 
Last time I tested myself I could do 20 push ups in 22 seconds and at that time I could do 40 in one set. Right now my max is at 30 per set. In theory, 100 pushups would take 110 seconds but my stamina would say otherwise. I did do 100 pushups a few times in the past but that was with 2 sets of 20's and 40's. Though it was more like doing that amount in 15-20 minutes.
 
Last night I did my homework at 7pm and turned off all distractions in my room, finished at 8:30, and had my first ever 9 hour sleep since school began. Felt great throughout the day! Slowly but surely I'm going to get rid of that 🤬 habit.
 
Just did an additional 50 push ups in 5 minutes. Caused a little pain in the palm of my left hand. Though the pain went away quickly. 200 seems to be my limit so far and I'm happy with that. I should do some situps tomorrow.
 
There is an easy solution: don't do pushups, go buy two dumbbells and do bench pressing instead. Once you're into strength training you realize how utterly useless pushups really are.
 
There is an easy solution: don't do pushups, go buy two dumbbells and do bench pressing instead. Once you're into strength training you realize how utterly useless pushups really are.

I'm too cheap and I don't have the actual room to use and store said dumbbells.

@cphbullet: Use your thumbs in a circular or forward and back motion to rub out the cramp. It just sounds like the muscles in your feet is not used to doing push ups. You just have to keep doing the pushups and you will gain more strength in your body. I've also found this page which is a guide to doing 100 pushups in one set. It seems to be a good guide and they also have a iphone and android app if you need it.
 
Michael88
There is an easy solution: don't do pushups, go buy two dumbbells and do bench pressing instead. Once you're into strength training you realize how utterly useless pushups really are.

I prefer push-up, a lot of them, over bench-pressing, anytime. Maybe bench-press with heavy weight is better to gain mass and strength but to gain resistance, stamina push-ups are way better IMO.There are so many different kinds of push-up you can do to work every part. In 10 minutes I do 5 series of 50 push-ups and 5 series of 50 "abs" reps. Take one hour and do 500 push-up every one or two days and you will see great results.
 
Earlier in the thread I've Said that I'd like to work out more. Well now, I'd like to start working out everyday, just lifting a 25LB dumbbell 15 times with each arm. I had started doing it frequently now, but still can't convince myself to do it everyday.
 
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Earlier in the thread I've Said that I'd like to work out more. Well now, I'd like to start working out everyday, just lifting a 25LB dumbbell 15 times with each arm. I had started doing it frequently now, but still can't convince myself to do it everyday.

You don't need to do it everyday. Your muscles need time to recover. You can alternate muscle group each day.
 
If your still looking for help, try moving to something like energy drinks not in massive amounts but i find this has helped curb my drinking, if your not happy about that try ice lollies, it sounds strange but it helps me as well.

Not sure that would help as I tend to pour two-three shots of vodka in to each can of monster:crazy:. I'll try the ice lollies, also had a good friend tell me to keep a bottle of water on hand at all time, to keep me doing the drinking motion, kinda like smokers and suckers.
 
I prefer push-up, a lot of them, over bench-pressing, anytime. Maybe bench-press with heavy weight is better to gain mass and strength but to gain resistance, stamina push-ups are way better IMO.
You can do bench pressing with little weight and a lot of reps you know, and its still better because you get a better ROM, can adjust your weights and you can do it on a negative bench to put more stress on your lower chest.
Also, getting stronger and building some muscle automatically increases your stamina with lower weights.
Reps in excess of 100 is just really silly and only wears out your shoulder joints.
I do see great results, but not with push ups but with dumbbell bench pressing on a negative bench with 8 reps 3 stints with 220 lbs.
There are so many different kinds of push-up you can do to work every part.
Work every part? Don't make me laugh, if you want exercises that works almost every muscle in your body try heavy deadlifts and one-handed dumbbell rows.
Earlier in the thread I've Said that I'd like to work out more. Well now, I'd like to start working out everyday, just lifting a 25LB dumbbell 15 times with each arm. I had started doing it frequently now, but still can't convince myself to do it everyday.

If work the same muscle group every single day you'll actually get weaker because the muscle can't recover and can't repair its damages from the training, it needs at least 2 days rest. During those two days work out other muscle groups so you can exercise every day.
 
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If work the same muscle group every single day you'll actually get weaker because the muscle can't recover and can't repair its damages from the training, it needs at least 2 days rest. During those two days work out other muscle groups so you can exercise every day.

Is the damage related to hard hard you push though? If I did a weight heavy enough that I could only do 8 reps, versus doing 20 or 30 of something lighter, is the 'damage' the same? and therefore would the required recovery time be the same? I try to do something on the weights most nights, and I never miss more than one-day in a row, but then, I'm not really pushing myself to the limit at the moment.
 
but then, I'm not really pushing myself to the limit at the moment.
If you are not pushing yourself your body will stay the same because it already has the endurance and strength it needs to perform the task, simple as that. What you are doing is working and burning calories, you will NOT gain muscle this way.

You'll only change if you go a tiny bit beyond your limits / comfort zone, only this way your body notices that it is not strong enough to perform the task and gets stronger accordingly.

Muscles need rest either way, doesn't matter if its 8 reps strength training or 20 reps muscle endurance training.
The amount of rest a muscle needs is not set in stone though and varies between individuals, exercise intensity and muscle groups, the bigger the muscle the more rest it needs after exercise.

I do strength training 8 reps and for example my pecs need 4 days to fully recover, only 3 days of rest and I will not be able to lift the weight or do as many reps as last time, that way I'd degenerate. Biceps only needs 2 days max, trapezius (neck) 3 days, and thighs a whooping 5 days. You'll also need more rest the bigger you get / the more weight you lift.
With my current exercise schedule all my muscles get about 5 days rest.
 
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^+1 I decided not to do my usual routine, and instead went for just cardio this time.
Half an hour of running, and lots of crunches and pushups.
 
Today is break time for me today. My legs are fine. It's just my my arms, shoulders, and lower chest are a bit sore from those pushups. I lost 4 pounds today and it was a good stress reducer. I'm at 192 pounds and my plan is to bring it down to 175 pounds.
 
nick09
Today is break time for me today. My legs are fine. It's just my my arms, shoulders, and lower chest are a bit sore from those pushups. I lost 4 pounds today and it was a good stress reducer. I'm at 192 pounds and my plan is to bring it down to 175 pounds.

Keep up the good work!
 
Just did an additional 50 push ups in 5 minutes. Caused a little pain in the palm of my left hand. Though the pain went away quickly. 200 seems to be my limit so far and I'm happy with that. I should do some situps tomorrow.

A better way is to see how many push-ups or sit-ups, or whatever, you can do in 60 seconds. Shorter time, greater effort.
 
There is an easy solution: don't do pushups, go buy two dumbbells and do bench pressing instead. Once you're into strength training you realize how utterly useless pushups really are.
I was looking into getting dumbbells, i didn't realise how cheap they were! Anyway i could't decide what size to get, i was thinking a 30kg set although i thought that sounded light, looking at videos it looks pretty heavy though, any advice? Im pretty hacked off as well as i spoke to my dad about it who had repeatedly said to me 'you need to bulk up your too skinny' has now turned round and gone 'no its a stupid idea you don't need dumbbells':ouch:

@nick09 thanks for the advice

Not sure that would help as I tend to pour two-three shots of vodka in to each can of monster:crazy:. I'll try the ice lollies, also had a good friend tell me to keep a bottle of water on hand at all time, to keep me doing the drinking motion, kinda like smokers and suckers.
Eww monster, i drink relentless lol, good luck with the ice lollies then, what was your most common drink may i ask?
 
Im pretty hacked off as well as i spoke to my dad about it who had repeatedly said to me 'you need to bulk up your too skinny' has now turned round and gone 'no its a stupid idea you don't need dumbbells':ouch:

People don't like change. For some strange reason other people hate to see others bettering themselves.

About the dumbells - could you not get a set, like a 'tree'?

20kg-30kg is quite a bit for a beginner.
 
I was looking into getting dumbbells, i didn't realise how cheap they were! Anyway i could't decide what size to get, i was thinking a 30kg set although i thought that sounded light, looking at videos it looks pretty heavy though, any advice? Im pretty hacked off as well as i spoke to my dad about it who had repeatedly said to me 'you need to bulk up your too skinny' has now turned round and gone 'no its a stupid idea you don't need dumbbells':ouch:

Don't buy fixed weight dumbbells, they're completely useless, buy one with attachable weights.
I do not know your height / frame / basic strength but I'd recommend starting with about 75% of your body weight. (if you are not overweight)

Doesn't sound like much but you need more strength to press dumbbells than a barbell because you need to stabilize those two independent weights. You don't need to do that with a fixed barbell. Most people - me included- can lift 20% less that way but its a much better - if less spectacular- exercise than barbell bench pressing.

Don't forget to buy a few 0.5, 1.25 and 2.25 kg weights so you can gradually increase weight as you get stronger.
You do not want to increase weight by 5 or even 10kg, it doesn't work that way.

You'll also need a bench, bench pressing doesn't work very well on the floor because it limits your ROM and you can't do negative presses on a flat floor.

Start with as much weight as you can press 8 times 3 stints, you can use a little less weight on your last stint, or just do 2 reps less. When you press dumbbells make sure your thumb knuckles point at your nipples, not at your feet or shoulders.

Bench pressing on a flat bench works your front deltoids (front shoulder muscle) and your pectoralis major (chest) and your triceps. If you do it on a negative bench you'll get more stress on your chest and less on your shoulders.

Make sure there is at least 4 days of rest between your chest exercises, and if you get sore muscles from the exercise (most beginners suffer from it) wait until they don't hurt anymore - do NOT work out with sore muscles!

And eat eat EAT! You won't bulk up if you don't give your body the extra energy it needs to build some muscle tissue. If you don't change your current eating habits absolutely nothing will happen, or in a worst case scenario you'll get even skinner because of all the extra calories you burn each time you exercise.

I HIGHLY recommend doing more than just chest exercise because this can lead to injuries, totally unbalanced physique and severe postural deformity etc.
When I started weight lifting I didn't work out my back but did a lot of chest exercises, dumbbell bench pressing well over 280lbs - and what happened? My upper back muscles were weak so my chest and neck muscles pulled my shoulders up and forward. It took me a year to correct that problem with rigorous back exercises - don't make the same mistake.
Do dead lifts, one armed rows, biceps curls and shrugs.
 
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