Oh but that's the clear implication in your post, 'I had to so you have to as well', you get onto the suffering in a minute.
Implication? I don't imply, I say. I say what I mean, and I mean what I say.
I've not got a degree, and I have zero, absolutely 100% zero issues with paying my (considerable) taxes to fund anyone that wants to take a degree or engage in higher education (vocational, scholarly, or otherwise).
Well I do have a problem with that. Paying taxes to fund someone else's life choices is something I REALLY don't like. Why should my taxes go to pay for someone else's mistakes/choices/stuff? I hate that there's a welfare system. That system just allows people to keep not working and be lazy and a drain on society, not a help. Getting off topic, I know.....whatever.
I grew up on a sink estate, with zero prospect of attending uni for a number of reasons, yet I would not for a second countenance anyone being unable to undertake higher education and do so without being saddled with impossible debt (for the capitalist in you, that's actually better for the economy as well).
As for defaulting to abuse, that says more than enough about your own insecurities rather than those of others.
I admit I had to look that one up, I'd never heard of a "sink estate". And that sucks. You didn't make the choice to grow up in that type of environment. But that doesn't mean you should be burdened with paying for someone else's dreams. Those are THEIR dreams, let them pay for them. IMO, allowing people to pay for other's dreams just contributes to a lazy society where people automatically assume others will pay for their dreams and wishes.
And abuse? Being called a pussy is being abusive? ****, that's a term of endearment where I'm from. I guess I just grew up in a much different era where being called names like that meant you were OK with someone. At my previous job, we called each other all kinds of names. And we all got along really well. We all knew it was in jest and could take it as well as we could dish it out. But I guess some people are thin-skinned. Whatever, I can't help that. Get thicker skin? And you may consider it abusive, but I don't. It's just how we talk, where I'm from.
Feelings are a real-world thing.
I know they are, but I don't allow them to run my life. If I get upset, I don't let it dictate my choices. I stop, calm myself, and think things through. But some people I know, personally, allow their lives to run totally on their feelings. And I've given them **** for it. One of them got a little upset with me about it. "Oh well. Maybe don't be an over-sensitive pussy" (my exact words to her). Too harsh? Maybe. But I don't care. It's how I am. I was raised to not let anyone walk all over me and to stand up for myself. If that made me abrasive, so be it. That's how I see the world. I don't see it as all rainbows and unicorns.
Yet here you are crying about others potentially getting an opportunity to not have it play out in the same way, sounds a lot like you do what for them to suffer the same, regardless of your claim otherwise.
What I'm "crying" about is people not having to (or wanting to) pay back a loan that they promised to pay back. And, yes, they promised when they signed that document stating that they would pay back the loan(s).
If you don't pay your car loan, they come and take your car away. If you don't pay your mortgage, they come and take your house from you, kick you out, and sell it to someone else. As for education, I think if you don't pay back your loans, and don't WANT to pay back your loans, then you should forfeit your degree. No payment, then you have no degree to use to get a better job. Want a better job? Then get a degree, pay for your loans, and show society that you're a responsible adult.
What was that about suffering again?
We all suffer. Some just handle it better than others. I've been without a home. I've been without a car. I've been without a job. I've been without food. But I did things to make sure that never happens again.
You are aware that the vast majority of people getting loan forgiveness are trying to do just that? You seem seriously removed from the actual facts involved.
Yes, I'm aware of that fact. But sometimes you have to take a job you really don't want in order to make ends meet. I don't want some of the jobs I've had. But I did them so I could pay my bills, including my student loans. I never asked for forgiveness. I never asked for help. I just did what I could to make sure I made those payments. I went without nice things for quite a while to make sure I paid back those loans.
Maybe it should be, a reason exists that the US falls so low down on every social and happiness measure around, and countries that operate on a socially inclusive basis outperform it on multiple measures.
And I give no ***** about either of those. I can't do anything about either of those. All I can do is try and control some things in my life, no one else's. I'm responsible for me, and that's it. I'm not responsible for anyone else. And no one else is responsible for me. I make my own decisions and deal with the outcomes.
You are aware that human beings are social animals? Your approach makes that a worse place to live, not a better one.
They may be social animals, but that doesn't mean you should spend every waking second with other people. I relish the times when I'm alone. I don't need other people to validate me or make me feel complete. And what I said still stands true. Feelings don't get the job done. Work gets the job done.
I understand that people need help from time to time. And it's OK to need help. Hell, it may be OK to even ask for help. But I'd rather just do it on my own. That way, I know it's been done and I didn't need a hand-out to get it done. IMO, a lot of these people wanting this loan forgiveness are those that just don't want to pay back their student loans. It's not that they're not capable of paying them back; they just don't want to do it because they don't want to do it. And to me, that's just pure laziness. And laziness never got anything done in this world. I can't abide lazy people and I refuse to put up with their ********.