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If I knew my friend carried a gun, I would treat them very differently. It means, to me, firstly, that they're paranoid. The odds of being attacked at any moment are relatively low, and can be lowered by using common sense. Secondly, they could be engaged in illegal activity or something else which is dangerous and I don't want to get involved with. Second is probably not true, but still slightly possible. The first point stands. If you carry a gun around, you worry way too much. There is such a thing as being too prepared. anyway, if you have to carry a gun around someplace, and you're not paranoid, then I don't know what to say. That place must be pretty messed up if there are people getting assaulted left and right and you fear for your life on every street.
Honestly, it sounds like you are the paranoid one if you'd make such assumptions from finding out a friend carried.
And if you think carrying is worrying too much, why bother with special insurance types, like for uninsured motorists? Not very likely I'm going to be struck by a driver with no insurance. Similar for ice damage insurance on homes, flood insurance, etc. Or you know, the stab resistant uniforms for schools I've seen for sale in the UK, because it seems like being stabbed is fairly comparable to being shot when talking about the UK versus the US, but knives are honestly much easier to use in an alley or dark bar without attracting a lot of attention.
The only reason guns add fear to the mix is because people don't understand them, or the culture. You just blanket them in with violent behavior, illegal activity, and paranoia despite having little real world information to work from.