Probably because it'd be considered incredibly racist.
You're trying to use Famines example, but what if 2 gays go into restaurant or a store and the owner refuses them based on sexuality? What if someone doesn't want to organize a wedding for two black people, why should they have to?
You're right, I agree with Famine. They should absolutely be able to do this if they wanted.
That's not right. We went through this during the Civil Rights era.
You're appealing to authority. Why isn't it right?
I didn't say it was preferable to begin with. You shouldn't discriminate against race or sex whether you can or can't disclose it.
Why not? "Just because" isn't an answer.
It shouldn't really matter, imo. You should help them regardless unless you actually have a valid reason. "You're gay" isn't really valid.
You
should help them regardless. But some people are :censored:heads.
I don't think being a :censored:head should be illegal, as long as it's not causing damage or injury to someone.
You need to understand that I specifically said you shouldn't discriminate for reasons based on race or sex. For the third time, I don't care if the law says you can or can't disclose that information bc in Indiana's case, there already laws forbidding that very thing.
But we're talking about what should or shouldn't be, not necessarily about the laws that are. The laws that are were simply the provocation for the discussion.
How about this thought.
We've established that you think that there are some things that should not be discriminated against, like race and sex.
We know that there are some things that are discriminated against, like girls in Girl Scouts or children in bars. There are good reasons to allow people to discriminate in these situations.
How do you determine which things should and should not be discriminated against? It doesn't have to be a foolproof method, I'm not trying to catch you out. I want to know what criteria you would apply to attempt to decide whether or not you would allow something to discriminated against.
And again, I've said I can see the appeal in letting stupid people out themselves and let society deal justice. But that's asking a lot of today's society.
If society can't do it, then it shouldn't be forced to.
Legaling telling gays you can't do business here is no different than when they told blacks the same thing.
Not really.
The problem when it was blacks is that the discrimination was so widespread that there were no alternative options to them in many cases.
I have no problem with one wedding caterer refusing to serve blacks. When the entire wedding catering industry refuses to serve blacks and strongarms any new businesses who might spring up to also refuse blacks I think that's pretty messed up. That's where the government and law steps in if necessary, to ensure that all people have at least some access to services and that society is able to mould itself to fit the will of the people without the beliefs of a few stifling it.
One should not make laws because you want society to be a certain way. One should make laws only when necessary, and only to allow society itself to express itself properly.
If you were in a society that is vehemently anti-gay, passing a gay equality law would be stupid. This just creates tension and dishonesty. However if you're in a society that
was vehemently anti-gay but is having a strong upwelling of gay support, then loosening restrictions on homosexuality can help make sure that society is able to make itself into something that supports gays if that what it wants to do, without being bound by the laws and morals of past generations.
Legislating the zeitgeist is a dumb idea. Creating freedom for a society to manage itself is a long term solution.
Whether the law says you have to or don't have to tell people why you refuse to serve them, your reasoning shouldn't be based on whether they're gay or not.
It shouldn't be, but for some people it
is. The discussion is about how we treat those people for whom their reasoning is based on sexuality.
I think you're bailing because you can't enunciate your opinion beyond "but discrimination is bad". You feel very strongly about this, but you can't explain why.
I think that's a good enough reason that you should think some more about why it is exactly that you feel the way you do.