crying doesn’t prevent sadness.
Wouldn't that also apply to a grown woman?
It's a natural expression of the feeling that the individual is experiencing (and shedding tears actually gets rid of the negative chemicals that form in your brain during intense sadness).
Men need targets to attain otherwise we’d all be slobs with fragile emotions and beer guts.
Hi. I'm a slob, 80 pounds overweight and emotionally unstable - enough to have to see a counselor once a month. I also have a Bachelor's of Science in Information Technology (just graduated May 2018) and am currently in the process of applying for jobs in my field starting at $42,500 a year with benefits.
Look at nature and observe that in most mammal species the dominant male usually fits into a certain sterotype if being stronger, harder, faster, sometimes smarter than the others
Humans are so extremely dominant on this planet that this is completely irrelevant for us. You also stated "most" mammals which pretty much tosses
homo sapiens sapiens ("very wise man", A.K.A. us, the humans) out of that umbrella statement anyways.
And I don’t see why having aspersions of a macho stereotype to aim for must be harmful.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hegemonic_masculinity#Toxic_masculinity
Because crying prevents suicide? From a personal perspective I’d have to dissagee.
Lizard's point was that forcing someone to bottle up their emotions can lead to a downward spiral where they start to feel like they have no answers and no one to turn to. And then, seeing no solution, they kill themselves. The problem is more widespread in men
because of statements like:
Real men don't cry when they're sad...
Because this just denies them the ability to be human like everyone else.
I'm done with this for now, but this just ticks me off in the worst way possible because it denies the existence of people like me in a so-called "ideal" of how men are supposed to be.