I used to be a massive brony, myself, but what happened to me was this:
I tried to get more into brony music when I joined Tumblr last year, thinking that I could be more like them if I started hanging around the same spots as them, and getting to know a few of them. This was a mistake; I have NEVER been all that into brony music save for a few artists, and following these people's personal lives made me find that, actually, they perhaps weren't such great guys/girls after all. The circlejerking, sycophantic fanaticism over how "2011-2012 brony muzik was better", and the sweeping, blind generalisations about the current state of the fandom. Considering that I feel it's just as **** now as it was then, I find that hard to stomach. EqD's "Music of the Day" posts slipped slowly into stagnation, and I began to care less and less for even
making music about ponies.
I got into the top fifty of Everfree Radio's Top 100 tracks of 2013 - which sparked a humungous turd-flinging contest on Tumblr, eventually ending in me basically being shafted from the brony music community. And honestly? The three non-pony tracks that I made in the succeeding months and the views that they racked up independent of the franchise that I'd essentially been using as a prop for the last two years? That means more to me than the paltry selection of "Music of the Day" features that I'd previously been so egotistical over. Honestly, the fact that two of my real-life friends are into 4Chan's /mlp/ is one of the only things that's kept me connected with the fandom over the last few months, because my opinions on the show and the fandom itself gradually started to drift away from everyone else's.
I liked Season 3. I liked Equestria Girls. I don't believe that Season 1 was some sort of "golden age" for the show, I've never really liked the in-show music that much, and I wasn't as enamoured with the fan-made animations and memes as everyone else seemed to be. Hasbro hands out C&Ds like Jehova's Witnesses hand out flyers, so the fangames I was excited for got cancelled. I've been given less and less of a fresh reason to really engage with the show and the fandom on the level at which I used to; I stopped reading fanfics, as my favourites slipped into hiatus and obscurity, and I could never find the time to care about many newer ones. There are only a certain number of fan-made stories about the same characters that I can sink my teeth into without the different continuities ending up as conflicting messes in my head - and I've started to care about characters from other shows more than I do about the MLP cast.
Then, just before the Weird Al Yankovic episode aired... I found K-On. Then I found Kill la Kill, then
iDOLM@STER, then Sakura Trick, then Haganai, and then Puella Magi Madoka Magica. Basically, I found shows with the slice-of-life elements of MLP, characters as lovable as those in MLP, music better than that in MLP and the deeper storylines that I read fanfiction for - but this time, without the repetition of being limited to a single franchise. This is what so many people miss when comparing MLP:FIM to "anime"; anime is an art form, whereas MLP - no matter how you swing the fandom's contributions - is just
one show. Limiting myself to it and obsessing over it as opposed to focusing specifically on the elements of it that I like was a bad decision, and it made me over-reliant on a fandom from which I eventually became distant. There will
always be more variety in an entire art form than there will be in a single show.
This doesn't mean that I've stopped caring about MLP:FIM altogether; on the contrary, the biggest poster in my room is one of the mane six and Celestia. I proudly display my "power level", as my aforementioned 4Chan-going friends call it - but I have other focuses. And that's made me realise something: were it not for the size and potency of the fandom, and the sheer amount of content available surrounding Friendship Is Magic, it would simply have been "just another show" to me, as it is right now. I don't feel as though I've wasted my time, though, as I've met some awesome people, made some awesome friends, and have generally been opened up by the whole pony experience - and as much as anything else, I have you guys to thank for that.
On a more positive note, I made a remix of Giddy Up a couple of weeks ago, totally on a whim. No sense of obligation, and it was a track linked only to MLP by circumstance - and a song that, I have to admit, I legitimately enjoyed. And when I released it, it went straight to an Equestria Daily Music
Spotlight. That, to me, felt like something of a personal victory; I made a remix of a track I liked from a franchise I enjoyed because I
wanted to, and it stood tall enough to be noticed by its target audience - and not just in the jumble of "Music of the Day", but in the Spotlight. I feel that there's no reason why I can't try that with other franchises, or even push to get more of my original songs out there, and seeing as there are now franchises with which I connect far more deeply than I have with MLP, ponies is no longer my focus. To me, it's now "a franchise that I enjoy", (as I feel about so many other franchises) as opposed to being the be-all and end-all of my entire creative output. No more, and certainly no less.